I mean really, i've been reading thread after thread about guys trying to pick up girls off the internet. Get off your ass, turn off your computer, and go out on ANY night of the week and make conversation with a girl you think is cute. it is that simple! You have endlesss opportunities to meet real live girls just down the block, yet you want to take the easy way out and chat on the computer while munching down your doritos and drinking your diet coke. Part of the excitement of dating is capturing the girl and taking a risk. I used to be a coward too, afraid to be rejected. Well you know what? Rejection is a part of life. get over it, you ego maniacs. My life is where i want it to be right now, because i risk rejection every day. I have a girlfriend i love, friends who call wanting to hang out with me, a job that pays well, a loving family, and an education. So just turn off your computer every once in a while and get out there. You never know what you may find.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what is with you keyboard jockeys...
- Thread starter jlr12584
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
:cheer:
Egoist
Master Don Juan
p.s. yeah, i used to get some ok FBs off the net, now its just retarded and boring. im not wasting my time on eGirls anymore.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Yep your right about guys trying to get girls off the internet. Its really lame and sad they have to limit thereselves to that. You really aren't in the field so you will never learn to kino, kiss, fuvk good, or handle social pressure. So ya get up and go outside and get those girls.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I_Only_Live_Once
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Great point from the original poster. The problem with this site is because you have so many KBJs on here, most of their advice is skewed towards how great the internet is. If they get rejected by an egirl, it's ok because the pain isn't there and they can continue munching on their doritos and playing online video games.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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Well-put.
ADifferentKindofDJ
Don Juan
AMEN!!, I'll testify to this point. Just go anywhere, there are opportunities all over the place. Take you hand, grab your balls and get out of the house.
my post wasnt intended to be chalk full of advice on seducing girls or a how to book. it was to make the point that there is more to life than chatting on a computer. simply switching it off will do wonders for u. when i moved into college, i left my computer at home for a month. forced me to socialize much more to keep busy and entertained. i made plenty of friends that way. God forbid u might even find a girl lol.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
2 more weeks before spider goes they way of "shezzler" I'm excited and scared.......
i'll always be trolling this forum (as long as i got this job, and a conection to the internat)
I'm excited and scared.......i'll always be trolling this forum (as long as i got this job, and a conection to the internat)
TillTheEndOfTime
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So if you met these "eGirls" in a bar or something they would be better? Seriously this is a dumb philosophy man.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
i have only just recently stopped being a KBJ and getting out into the real world. Its alot better and the risks you take really dont matter anyway if you are rejected.
Still play my computer games thow
Not a fan of doritos thow.
Still play my computer games thow
Not a fan of doritos thow.