"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is with all the negativity around here??

Snowman23

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Is there any decent advice out there anymore? Anytime someone asks for help on a situation with a girl, the responses are always negative. "She's a fvcking slvt!" or "Dumb the b!tch" and "She's an AW!!" That's real helpful, thanks.

Now I'm not sticking up for the women, I'm just wondering where is this hostility coming from? I'm getting really tired of reading some of this sh!t, and if there was a way to block it, I would.

If you want to be bitter because you aren't/weren't good with women, that's fine. Keep it to yourself and post constructive advice please.

I can't stand reading all of this negativity anymore.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Conquer

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Think some guys here just have an interesting way of showing their support. lol
 

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Snowman23 said:
Is there any decent advice out there anymore? Anytime someone asks for help on a situation with a girl, the responses are always negative. "She's a fvcking slvt!" or "Dumb the b!tch" and "She's an AW!!" That's real helpful, thanks.

Now I'm not sticking up for the women, I'm just wondering where is this hostility coming from? I'm getting really tired of reading some of this sh!t, and if there was a way to block it, I would.

If you want to be bitter because you aren't/weren't good with women, that's fine. Keep it to yourself and post constructive advice please.

I can't stand reading all of this negativity anymore.

Need a tampon? That time of the month princess? Harden the fvck up son. It's men talking, try not to get you vag bruised when conversing with the big boys. Can't stand it babygirl? Then leave!

(of course you know if this pissed you off, you really are a biitch) LOL.



Seriouslythough, I'm just joking with you. Your not gonna get to decide how other people post, so toughen up a bit and forget about it, your only other option is to leave.
 
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