"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WaRpEd

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Well well well, how has everyone been, its been so long since ive actually visited this site, it says up in the corner that i last visited 11-26-05...wow, and i remember that time too, i was only on for bout 10 min, i think the last time i was seriously online to be learing was maybe last summerish

well I dunno whos still on and whos new and all, but its nice beein back, i plan on writing a couple things ive learned during my leave.

What have I been doin? Well i got into a long term relationship for a while...eh, messed that up. BUt hey..."theirs plenty of other fish in the sea...and its time to start fishin again, however my pole might be a little rusty, and I might have to refurbish my tacklebox.


sosuave, fellow duan juans, etc....im baaaaaaack :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrS

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welcome back, I don't know you, but hi :)
 

buckwheat18

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Hey welcome back, i come back here once and awhile to visit also. Anyways, this is the place to brush up and make sense of things. peace,
 
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