"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

What is up with this girl?

M

MrP

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2010
Messages
180
Reaction score
1
Location
Up in there.
So I go to class today, and I'm rolling in, when I see this chick sitting on top my desk, talking to her friend. I go up to her and sort of nudged a little on her arm and said you can't sit in my seat with a smile on my face. She replied with a "don't touch me." It wasn't playful or serious, maybe it was sensual... I'm not sure, so I really didn't know how to respond. I sat down right up against her and started talking to one of my friends, when this fat girl literally broke her seat and everybody laughed for a almost a whole minute. The whole time I was right up against her and she didn't move away. She keeps messing up her hair too. What does this mean?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

B

Bonafide

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2008
Messages
402
Reaction score
4
Location
California
Sounds like shes testing you a bit...What'd you say after she said not to touch her?
 
E

eaglez1177

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2008
Messages
1,320
Reaction score
21
MrP said:
So I go to class today, and I'm rolling in, when I see this chick sitting on top my desk, talking to her friend. I go up to her and sort of nudged a little on her arm and said you can't sit in my seat with a smile on my face. She replied with a "don't touch me." It wasn't playful or serious, maybe it was sensual... I'm not sure, so I really didn't know how to respond. I sat down right up against her and started talking to one of my friends, when this fat girl literally broke her seat and everybody laughed for a almost a whole minute. The whole time I was right up against her and she didn't move away. She keeps messing up her hair too. What does this mean?
Click to expand...
Sounds like shes definitely interested. When a girl "messes up" or plays around with her hair, its usually an IOI. Not only that, but why would she says "dont touch me" yet at the same time lean up back against you? What a girl says is totally irrelevant, what matters most is what they do. You pretty much initiated kino, and she went along with it, another IOI. If she wasnt intested she wudve moved away.
 
S

schoolfights

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2010
Messages
18
Reaction score
1
If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. :whistle:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top