"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is up with the grammar and spelling on this site?

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I may not be the world's best speller, and my grammar may not be the caliber of which doctoral thesis are written, but what is up with the complete lack of basic skills in most of these posts?

I ask this not to come off as some intellectual snob, but because many times it's really hard to decipher what the person is saying. I can understand a few problems if English isn't the person's first language, but often times the authors were born and raised in the good ole US OF A.

I'm not saying your punctuation and spelling have to be perfect, but if you're going to ask a question at least invest in spellcheck.

Rant over..........
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr_knowit_all said:
I may not be the world's best speller, and my grammar may not be the caliber of which doctoral thesis are written, but what is up with the complete lack of basic skills in most of these posts?

I ask this not to come off as some intellectual snob, but because many times it's really hard to decipher what the person is saying. I can understand a few problems if English isn't the person's first language, but often times the authors were born and raised in the good ole US OF A.

I'm not saying your punctuation and spelling have to be perfect, but if you're going to ask a question at least invest in spellcheck.

Rant over..........
so diz iz what u spend ur life energy on..u took da time out of ur univerze knowing u could never get it back trying 2 b an english teacher on a web site about learning how 2 evolve az a man...ur thoughtz r really shallow.which meanz ur mental energy iz really low...
YHWH Blezz
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Mr_knowit_all said:
.....but often times the authors were born and raised in the good ole US OF A.....
-don't be so sure. Someone who looks to the right might think im from canada, but i wasn't born here....
-people got used to "slang", and short forms....
 

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Royal Elite said:
so diz iz what u spend ur life energy on..u took da time out of ur univerze knowing u could never get it back trying 2 b an english teacher on a web site about learning how 2 evolve az a man...ur thoughtz r really shallow.which meanz ur mental energy iz really low...
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I'm not sure if your lack of grammar is a joke? It fits in really well with most of the other posts.

Obviously you're threatened by somebody pointing out the fact that basic writing skills make it easier for people to read your posts.

Now get off the computer and go watch The Dukes of Hazzard.
 

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-don't be so sure. Someone who looks to the right might think im from canada, but i wasn't born here....
-people got used to "slang", and short forms....
I'm not even talking about "slang" and "short forms". I'm talking about people who misspell a word so bad you can't even tell what they meant. I'm talking about a total lack of coherent thought.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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heres a thought smart guy - people dont have as much free time on their hands as u do to go spell check everything that they typed up....and some of us r really fast typers! wat a useless thread
 

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being da alpha male..

i juzt posted in a thread about when u r da alpha male all da other hater malez pay attention 2 everything u say and do ...even something so small az how u spell wordz..even though wordz exprezz meaning and da only thing dat matterz iz if u get da meaning..but when itz clear dey cant out smart u, out clazz u, or out alpha u da find da mozt insignificant dingz dey can 2 try 2 make demselvez seem smart..but wazting a post on spelling iz a juvenile mentality..which tellz me everything i need 2 know about U..
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heres a thought smart guy - people dont have as much free time on their hands as u do to go spell check everything that they typed up....and some of us r really fast typers! wat a useless thread

Yet you had enough free time to respond to my thread? Fvcking punk ass.....
 

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Mr. Knowit All, all posters here are not from English speaking countries, take that in to consideration before you scrutinize the way people express themselves.
 

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yeai had time to respond because im at work, and i wanna read somethign decent on sosuave, not some random guy complaing about spelling....threads like urs ruin what is sosuave - ive NEVER come across a thread where i didnt understand what the poster was saying - u should start worrying about not being a loser who cant get chicks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Faded Image said:
Mr. Knowit All, all posters here are not from English speaking countries, take that in to consideration before you scrutinize the way people express themselves.
Actually he did take that into consideration and stated that in his 2nd paragraph. He is right too. Valuable information doesn't even get glossed over in my book if it's not written with at least some structure.
 

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Royal Elite, quit using one of those dialectizers to change your grammar's dialect into something that sounds like Elmer Fudd or Captain Hook or whatever.

It's hard to read dude and wastes a message space.

The problem with writing shytty - it becomes a habit.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
yeai had time to respond because im at work, and i wanna read somethign decent on sosuave, not some random guy complaing about spelling....threads like urs ruin what is sosuave - ive NEVER come across a thread where i didnt understand what the poster was saying - u should start worrying about not being a loser who cant get chicks
Your employer pays you to be on the internet? You stupid fvck. The reason you can read that shyt is because you're just as stupid as them.

As far as not being able to get chicks, I get plenty. Why don't you show your picture you scrawny little fvck? Let's see the face behind those computer muscles.

P.S. Check out this ass clown's spelling. Enough said......
 

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Mr. Knowit All, all posters here are not from English speaking countries, take that in to consideration before you scrutinize the way people express themselves.

Not only can you not spell, obviously you can't read either. Like another poster said, I specifically addressed the fact that not all people on this forum have English as their first language. I'm not talking about them; I'm talking about people from English speaking countries who write like they're in 3rd grade.

This is one of the things wrong with our country. People don't take education seriously. I know this has nothing to do with dating, but it does have to do with the information being posted on this site. How can someone with a reasonable semblence of intelligence read that crap?
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
heres a thought smart guy - people dont have as much free time on their hands as u do to go spell check everything that they typed up....and some of us r really fast typers! wat a useless thread


I wish I knew to whom to credit this quote. I saved it many years ago from a message board. I think it may have been someone on slashdot.org.

"It's not that you can't think straight without good grammar, it's that the same mental skill set leads to both clear thinking and clear speaking. Any person who consistently thinks clearly and correctly will just naturally speak, write, sketch, diagram, and code clearly and correctly, without making a separate effort to do so. Poorly written memos and instructions carry this subtext: I am omnipotent and my time and energy is golden; you are slime and your time and energy is of no account; therefore I will minimize the effort I put into making my utterances, leaving them only as complete and meaningful as my whim dictates; you will compensate by spending as much of your life and substance as required to make sense of these pearls; and woe betide you if you fail."
p.s. You could have also paid attention in middle school and already know how to spell most words so you don't have to spend any time spell checking.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree with mr know itall . I'll skip posts or threads of people who don't know how to form a basic sentence. Learn to write like it means something to you, not like you're doing IM while riding your bike. I read some pathetic questions by someone who can't use basic spelling and grammar, and its obvious where their problem is.
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
This is one of the things wrong with our country. People don't take education seriously. I know this has nothing to do with dating, but it does have to do with the information being posted on this site. How can someone with a reasonable semblence of intelligence read that crap?

It has plenty to do with dating. What quality woman wants to go out with a guy who can't consistently and logically string a complex thought into words?
 

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hey i agree about Royal elite making asll of his s's into z's for no reason - but if one is making a long post and makes a few spelling typos because he is typing too fast, then that shouldnt really matter, ive never seen anyones post that was just so horrible that it made my eyes water - i dont notice tiny errors as long as THE POINT is made and the thread is good
 

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It has plenty to do with dating. What quality woman wants to go out with a guy who can't consistently and logically string a complex thought into words?
My point exactly. Nobody is asking for perfection. Just make it legible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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