"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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So a plate calls me up tonight.. says she was thinking about me and had an awesome idea - That I should join a club with her (like an activity, theater) and we should do it together.

At first I played it cool and was like yeah that sounds like something that would be fun (to at least find info about.) but then she was pretty serious about it and is gonna look into it for us. Was that a sh!t test? I dont even know..

Later in the phone convo she was like "Yeah, you know you should get a cat youd do really well with one and you know since your girlfriend left and all that it would make you really happy (not that you arent happy now)"

I would say that I was getting friend zoned, yet we've been fvcking for the last few days, and she knows im drawing the line between friend and plate.

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I know what you all are thinking , im just trying to keep learning about all these situations.
 

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Sounds like she's being a bit sneaky and covertly trying to become more than a FB by pretending to be overly friendly.

Play it cool, string her along as much as you need to secure the pvssy but don't give her any reason to think you're anything more than simply Mr Fvckbuddy.
Just be honest and and tell her you hate cats and that your social calendar is too full at the moment to consider joining a club.
Let her down gently and keep deflecting her attempts to curry more favour with you.
 
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Don't think its a **** test, sounds like she wants a relationship.
 
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