"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what is this? girl i messed around with cut communication with me

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we were in same bed making out hard and stuff just 2nights ago.
then starting next day she totally cut communication.
ok, as far as i observed she left happy and seemed like she was in love.

then i txted her next day saying how she was, then no response...
i didn't txt her anymore. then next day i txted her again saying if she was doing ok. she simply said she was. now normally this girl would txt me back all the time and call me. then just within few hrs, after we had good time, she cut off communication and don even txt bak to my last msg again.

honestly, im going to tell her "if you are uncomfortable with me, then tell me b/c i prefer people to be honest and direct with me than avoid problems." i hate this kind of game, so i am ready to let her go. i can't afford myself to turn into afc over this. help urgent!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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moneyisking said:
honestly, im going to tell her "if you are uncomfortable with me, then tell me b/c i prefer people to be honest and direct with me than avoid problems." i hate this kind of game, so i am ready to let her go. i can't afford myself to turn into afc over this. help urgent!!!
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Well if your goal is to NOT turn into an AFC, then don't get all emotional and respond to her lack of responsiveness. That gets you nowhere.

If you're going to date women, the main thing you should learn not to expect is honesty and directness. They don't work that way. And besides, it's one day of her not responding? Who cares? I might go days between text responses with the girls I'm dating.
 
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really? hm i thought it was afc to not stand up to things like these but i might be wrong. is she testing me or something? i don't want to suck her apathy up like a nice guy. well i await more answers... thank you.
 
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Man I am sorry to tell you this, but I do this all the time.

Its because I am a slvt.
Maybe shes a slvt too.

I wouldnt really invest too much into it. Sorry.

There are about 1000 reasons behind why she is doing this. But the thing is, you will never know. Let it go and move on.
 
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Mantis is right. Just cut her off. Then she'll be wondering why you don't care anymore.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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moneyisking said:
really? hm i thought it was afc to not stand up to things like these but i might be wrong. is she testing me or something? i don't want to suck her apathy up like a nice guy. well i await more answers... thank you.
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Stand up to what? Her not returning your text? You can't stand up against a woman having low interest in you. What would the argument be? "How dare you not like me!!!!" You can't argue a person into liking you more. And the act of showing your anger just gives her more power over you.

You're not "sucking up her apathy like a nice guy." You're moving on. That's your only weapon. To show her that she's nothing more than a footnote on your busy list of Things to Do.
 
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ok i take yal's word for it. plus that biatch got into my head and i can just feel like my confidence went down a little. but im not letting myself down, more girls to choose from anyways. dam this is why hos are dangerous to man's sanity if you let em
 
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I agree with everything Mantis said.

I know it's frustrating, but you will never know what happened. Maybe she just felt like fooling around and nothing more. It isn't so much a question of whether or not it's alpha to call her out on the bs. The point is that it's an exercise in futility.

In this game we always want more and more. It's the "Grass is Greener" thing.

1. Get a kiss. You wanted a makeout.
2. Get a makeout. You wanted a bl@wj@b.
3. Got a dry hump. You wanted a f@ck.
4. Got a f@ck. You wanted a hotter girl or a threesome to f.

Go as far as you can with a given girl and enjoy it for what it is. You did well had fun with this girl. You have the ability to get another and take it farther.
 
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topmacknigga.blogspot.com. Boss mack has some good game for yall. Check out the show entitled ulysses. GOOD GAME! he may not be for everyone but he keeps it real no sugercoating.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Well if your goal is to NOT turn into an AFC, then don't get all emotional and respond to her lack of responsiveness. That gets you nowhere.

If you're going to date women, the main thing you should learn not to expect is honesty and directness. They don't work that way. And besides, it's one day of her not responding? Who cares? I might go days between text responses with the girls I'm dating.
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That line was COLD. Hahaha
 
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move on , she's trying to play you , so what do you do turn the tables , bam! now its you who's not talking to her , You made out with here and now YOU aren't calling her back
 
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