"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is this all about...unable to decipher..

pvf94

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There is a girl I just recently started to chill with, and she makes it known to me that "so many guys like her" and so and so wants to hangout with her...guy's of course...but she then follows on to shoot them down. Like she will be sitting there talkin with me and her phone will ring...she answers if its a guy shell sit there and laugh with me and let me listen to the convo, then she proceeds to talk **** about him or poke fun at the fun that she knows he likes her or whatever. I just laugh it off mainly because I could care less, I mean I am the guy she is sitting with and callin up and askin to hang out on a regular basis...she has already stated she finds me attractive and intriguing....as have I said the same to her.

Is this some sort of **** test to see if I get jealous?? At one point in time we were talking online and she was asking questions like how tall is your dream girl and all this ****....then when I would hit her back with the same question she basically described me...

Her mommy likes me too...haha.

What is she trying to do ??? She makes it known that she is in demand, but doesn't rub it in my face, she more or less lets me know and listen to everything as if she has no secrets about it....

This good or bad??

She's also super touchy feely, touching my face, playin with my hair, chest, legs, thighs....we were sitting next to each other in her computer room the other day and she started rubbing my upper leg area saying your jeans are softer then mine feel...and I played along for a few and then busted on her and said "This is the best excuse you can come up with for touching me?" She proceeded to blush and cover her face up with her peacoat and giggled. Her eyes are super dialated when she stares at me too haha....and she was rubbing her hair on my cheek askin me if it felt good....actually now that I type this I feel like a fvcking retard for not kissing her.


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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lay the pipe. She obviously wants it.

Second, she seems like a grade A attention *****. Don't give her all that attention.
 

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She's just another Histrionic Cluster B nutjob.

Don't next but keep your emotions out of it with this one and just use her for whatever you can get out of her.

She's making fun of you when you're not around with other guys as well so don't fall for her bullsh!t that its just you and she together laughing at all the AFC's who want to get with her because she views you the same way as them despite how she acts.
 

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She's doing everything she knows how to let you know that she wants you to take her, and if you don't do it soon she's moving on because she has options.
 

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Sounds like you got on her "comfortable" side. You need to make a shift, soon.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dongfu said:
Sounds like you got on her "comfortable" side. You need to make a shift, soon.
What side do I want to be on
 
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