what is the worst thing that can happen

[spider_007]

Im trying to get over this litle fear of rejection, and yes i know Im probably asking for trouble but...

What is the worst rejection you guys experienced personally and haw often does it really happen to you.

Every time I start walking toword a gurl all of a sudden I start thinking of the worst possible outcome (getting slapped in the face and emberesed if front of everybody) Im not dumb enought to offend the gurl that much, I know haw to take a hint. But I still have that fear.

So haw offten does it happen, and haw much of a ball crushing pain is it.


Sorry about the spelling.

 

[frivolousz21]

dont worry..

realize its going to happen..the rejection..not the slap in the face.

go hit on 100 women the rest of the weekend..by Monday you will feel like KING JUAN

 

[ScrewIt]

just tell yourself, "i have everything to gain, and nothing to lose."

sure it takes a punch to your ego, but just get back up and try again.

PERSERVERANCE

 

[earthshyne]

2 short rejection stories

1. In my pre-DJ days, I tried once to win the attention of a pretty young thing by buying her a necklace. She and I were among a group of friends when I slid in behind her and slipped the necklace around her neck.
   
   What I expected was something like, "Oh, it's beautiful! Thank you so much!" and a hug or even a brief kiss.
   
   What I got was, "What the hell is this? I don't want it. Get it off me!"
   
   Needless to say, I was a little red-faced about the whole incident.
   
2. I had gone on an extended trip on my own but had been writing to my girlfriend every second day (via airmail... no email existed at this time). Some of the letters were simple little travelogues... "Here I am in Australia and the weather's fine"... and other ones were heartfelt love letters about how beautiful she was, blah blah.
   
   When I got back, she and I headed straight for the sheets. In the midst of our lovemaking, I made some comment about inviting a few friends over for a Mazola party (a euphimism for an orgy), meaning nothing by it at all, I was just high on the sex. She said that she had been to a couple of those type of parties while I was away.
   
   I was flabbergasted. Completely stunned. I went from ramrod steel to overboiled noodle in an instant.
   
   "Well," she said, "it's not like we said we wouldn't see other people..."

Moral of the stories:

1. Don't buy wimmen jewelery, even if they say they'll be more inclined to give you head if you do. But, if you absolutely must, don't give it to her in a public place;
   
2. If you're taking an extended trip away, cut off ties with your lady before you leave, then GO HAVE FUN and bonk yourself silly. If she wants you back when you return, great. If not, move on and enjoy the memories.

I guess the lessons make me a creep. And I'm perfectly ok with that.

 

[spider_007]

Well I read the bible, among other things, I have yat to get outhere and put it to use, I'm sure I won't don anything too stupid.

Looks like I picked a sencetive subject that nobody wants to talk about, or admit to, he he