"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is the telling her "I saw your twin" trick?

alpha_ash

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Hey guys,

So I read in several posts where the "I just saw your twin" trick was mentioned. I tried searching around the Internet with no luck. Could someone explain it or direct me to a page that discusses it in-depth?

Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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alpha_ash said:
Hey guys,

So I read in several posts where the "I just saw your twin" trick was mentioned. I tried searching around the Internet with no luck. Could someone explain it or direct me to a page that discusses it in-depth?

Thanks!
its an safe opener that plays on a girl's curiosity to try and get her permission so you may speak to her. even if you receive that permission, it doesn't "create attraction" nothing verbal creates attraction. She will ultimately look at our picture and decide if you are sexy and cool enough to go out with and/or potentially have sex with.

i prefer "hey sexy b1tch".. tell that to 100 and the ones that answer are definitely interested.

just my 2cents :rock:
 

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good looking loser said:
its an safe opener that plays on a girl's curiosity to try and get her permission so you may speak to her. even if you receive that permission, it doesn't "create attraction" nothing verbal creates attraction. She will ultimately look at our picture and decide if you are sexy and cool enough to go out with and/or potentially have sex with.

i prefer "hey sexy b1tch".. tell that to 100 and the ones that answer are definitely interested.

just my 2cents :rock:
haha, good stuff! I have known this girl for just over a month, sort of an occasional flake, but that's expected from any girl. Last Sunday she flaked on me, we were supposed to meet for coffee, and said lets do this "next week".

Anyway, I'm trying to figure out whether I should invite her to join me for lunch this afternoon.

EDIT: I watched your most recent video and that's some excellent stuff there. You just have the confidence and the girl follows :D
 

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alpha_ash said:
haha, good stuff! I have known this girl for just over a month, sort of an occasional flake, but that's expected from any girl. Last Sunday she flaked on me, we were supposed to meet for coffee, and said lets do this "next week".

Anyway, I'm trying to figure out whether I should invite her to join me for lunch this afternoon.

EDIT: I watched your most recent video and that's some excellent stuff there. You just have the confidence and the girl follows :D

well I guess I can say, since most people here will say anyway :), if you want to invite her invite her for a real date, reading the forums they have several ideas about to where take a date, and lunch is one of you shouldn't do it (unless she have a high IL I guess, so it won't matter, no the case here)
 

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Alvafe said:
well I guess I can say, since most people here will say anyway :), if you want to invite her invite her for a real date, reading the forums they have several ideas about to where take a date, and lunch is one of you shouldn't do it (unless she have a high IL I guess, so it won't matter, no the case here)
I want to take her out of her daily schedule. Give her something to be excited about! Lol. Still lunch today is not a good idea?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i use that as bait to get a response from a text message. it works well on girls that are not very responsive to texts. have a story in mind cause she will ask to hear about it. here's how the conversation should go.

me: omg i just saw your twin!!!
her: really? what happened?
me: too long to tell over text
her: c'mon tell me
me: kinda busy right now, meet me for drinks in 2 hours and i'll tell you all bout it.

boom! you got a girl that rarely responds to your text messages, and you got a date out of it. another one i like to use is "omg the craziest thing just happened!"
 

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thevilittletroll said:
i use that as bait to get a response from a text message. it works well on girls that are not very responsive to texts. have a story in mind cause she will ask to hear about it. here's how the conversation should go.

me: omg i just saw your twin!!!
her: really? what happened?
me: too long to tell over text
her: c'mon tell me
me: kinda busy right now, meet me for drinks in 2 hours and i'll tell you all bout it.

boom! you got a girl that rarely responds to your text messages, and you got a date out of it. another one i like to use is "omg the craziest thing just happened!"
Excellent explanation! Thank you :)
 
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