"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is the solution?

jama

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Hello everyone

sosuave.com teaches us how to be the man/DJ and, more importantly, how to play with chicks in order to attract the one that we desire. On the other hand, women know this stuff naturally. This makes me wondering lately, and I haven come across an article that explains, is: let us say you meet a girl and after getting to know each other well, both of you feel intense emotional connection but somehow you fight (let us say due to intense passion) and stop talking (the silent treatment,). The girl, who is high maintenance, doesn’t want to give in and you, who is DJ, doesn’t want to beg and plead. Hence, the situation is jeopardized! This, however, raises the question: who is going to give in. You love her and she love you too but there is that passion that drives both of you crazy (I hope you understand what I am talking about). Hence, the attraction between the bad boy/jerk and the ***** (this word refers to girls who are attractive and play head games).
What is the solution? Let me make the situation bit difficult. Giving in, in this situation, requires sacrificing some of your dignity. DJs, would you do the something that Will Smith did in that movie or would you walk away from the love of your life.
It is difficult.
What would you do?
Thank you for sharing your experience.
Abdi
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Royal Elite

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Most of these questions, answers, and strategy's are clear expression of the train of thought of immature males. Mature Men (which has nothing to do with age) dont think like thiz. Life is meant to be enjoyed not stressed over, and Women are part of life. Learn to relax, and B EZ, as well as speak less and you will do just fine with WOMEN, and EVERYONE else.

Yah Bless
 

Desdinova

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Let me make the situation bit difficult. Giving in, in this situation, requires sacrificing some of your dignity.
No it doesn't. You just need to break that barrier. Start touching her (kino). That's how you get the ball rolling.
 

KarmaSutra

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Bobby D said it best in the film Heat:

"Don't ever let anything in your life you aren't willing to walk away from in thirty seconds flat if you see the heat comin' around the corner."

If it comes to a gunfight of wills between you and a woman, Don't blink.
 
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