"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is the solution?

jama

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Hello everyone

sosuave.com teaches us how to be the man/DJ and, more importantly, how to play with chicks in order to attract the one that we desire. On the other hand, women know this stuff naturally. This makes me wondering lately, and I haven come across an article that explains, is: let us say you meet a girl and after getting to know each other well, both of you feel intense emotional connection but somehow you fight (let us say due to intense passion) and stop talking (the silent treatment,). The girl, who is high maintenance, doesn’t want to give in and you, who is DJ, doesn’t want to beg and plead. Hence, the situation is jeopardized! This, however, raises the question: who is going to give in. You love her and she love you too but there is that passion that drives both of you crazy (I hope you understand what I am talking about). Hence, the attraction between the bad boy/jerk and the ***** (this word refers to girls who are attractive and play head games).
What is the solution? Let me make the situation bit difficult. Giving in, in this situation, requires sacrificing some of your dignity. DJs, would you do the something that Will Smith did in that movie or would you walk away from the love of your life.
It is difficult.
What would you do?
Thank you for sharing your experience.
Abdi
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Royal Elite

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Most of these questions, answers, and strategy's are clear expression of the train of thought of immature males. Mature Men (which has nothing to do with age) dont think like thiz. Life is meant to be enjoyed not stressed over, and Women are part of life. Learn to relax, and B EZ, as well as speak less and you will do just fine with WOMEN, and EVERYONE else.

Yah Bless
 

Desdinova

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Let me make the situation bit difficult. Giving in, in this situation, requires sacrificing some of your dignity.
No it doesn't. You just need to break that barrier. Start touching her (kino). That's how you get the ball rolling.
 

KarmaSutra

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Bobby D said it best in the film Heat:

"Don't ever let anything in your life you aren't willing to walk away from in thirty seconds flat if you see the heat comin' around the corner."

If it comes to a gunfight of wills between you and a woman, Don't blink.
 
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