"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is the right way to do a sligh smile?

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mastersylar

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I was watching David D's advanced series today and he talks about a sly smile. How do you do a sligh smile? Does anyone have any good pictures or references to pictures?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just be natural about it. If you try to mechanically do one, you will look really awkward. I'm sure you've given your guy friends a sly smile when you made a wisecrack about them. "Hey Steve you big queen!" you might yell. What kind of expression would you have on your face after a comment like that?

The key is to actually be sly. The other day a girl I was having dinner with wanted to put some of her left over pizzas in my pizza box. I was giving her a hard time and saying no. She said, "let me put in your box." I said, "no, let me put in YOUR box!"

Of course, I said it completely jokingly so naturally my facial expression naturally turned to a sly a grin. She laughed and hit me on the shoulder.
 
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Two types work for me:

The first is when I pretend like I'm trying not to smile, but had maybe had just heard a really funny joke.

The second is when I pretend that I'm being sneaky. Trust me, if you imagine yourself just creeping around in someones house with a large cartoon-esque bag of loot and a burglar mask it will produce a sly smile. You really have to get in to it though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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