"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is the perfect height for a man?

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I've been doing research into cosmetic limb lengthening. I'm currently 5' 7 7/8". Just a hair under 5'8". I have the ability to get as tall as 6'2", but I don't think that would be necessary. I think it might add a few points to my attractiveness and be just as good, just to get to 5'10.5" or 5'11".

I'm making an appointment with a local doctor to ask about proper proportions and to see how I might be limited in functionality if I choose to go through with this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chev.Chelios

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the guys I've known who've gotten laid the most were usually short lol..

they weren't even aware they were short, thats the trick is not making it a thing.
 

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6'2-6'4 imo
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RangerMIke

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Chicks like men who are a little taller than they are while they are in heels. Since heels are about 3" and the average height of an American woman is 5'4" if you are a man that is 5'8" or taller your height should not be problem for average chicks. But be advised, if the chick you are after is 5'8" she's going to prefer a man that is 6' or taller...

But like in all things, if she feels the chemistry height doesn't mean anything.
 

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aspiring models in Russia get leg lengthening, they break your legs and insert rods and slowly crank you up.
@RichardTheFrog this looks like just the thing for you!
 

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Taller.

All you have to do is be taller than the next guy, you don’t have to be huge. Also, just be taller than WOMEN specifically, not even the people around you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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also Richard no offence but thats BETA and DESPERATE to break ur bones just to get laid more. just get ripped and date shorter girls


if you lenghten your legs im sure you will be disabled at age of 50
 

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Richard.....listen to me for a minute. I know that you are just going to rebuttal this but I will say it anyway:

You can buy a Lamo. Get the bionic d!ck. Get your legs broken to gain a few more inches in height. At the end of all of this, you are going to be even more disappointed. You are fixing the wrong things dude.

I am 5'8" and have zero problems with women. Its all about being the person that people want to be around and being completely confident in yourself. That is where you are severely lacking and not making and effort to fix.
 

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Richard.....listen to me for a minute. I know that you are just going to rebuttal this but I will say it anyway:

You can buy a Lamo. Get the bionic d!ck. Get your legs broken to gain a few more inches in height. At the end of all of this, you are going to be even more disappointed. You are fixing the wrong things dude.

I am 5'8" and have zero problems with women. Its all about being the person that people want to be around and being completely confident in yourself. That is where you are severely lacking and not making and effort to fix.
Richard is the best guy when it comes to ruining his own life
 

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Richard.....listen to me for a minute. I know that you are just going to rebuttal this but I will say it anyway:

You can buy a Lamo. Get the bionic d!ck. Get your legs broken to gain a few more inches in height. At the end of all of this, you are going to be even more disappointed. You are fixing the wrong things dude.

I am 5'8" and have zero problems with women. Its all about being the person that people want to be around and being completely confident in yourself. That is where you are severely lacking and not making and effort to fix.
I was gonna write a post, but this. You can change every physical aspect about you and turn into a human ken doll, but it won’t help inner game.

You could be the perfect man, but if your frame is ****, it doesn’t matter.

I personally think you have body dysmorphia and need to seek a therapist to help that inner game
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To answer the question, 6'2-6'4 for sure but at 6'0, you already feel taller than most people.

Also you need to stop focusing on all this cosmetic stuff. Next thing you know, you'll go from 5'8 to 5'11 with no game and you'll be writing a thread about getting a facial procedure done.

You know these procedures have long term effects that aren't even worth getting them done in most cases. In this example, knee problems such as persistent knee pain are a common complication. I don't think its worth it to basically have arthritis at such a young age just cause one isn't happy with being average height.
 

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do you really recommend this stuff to him? ouch

im 185-190cm and height doesnt help that much imo
It just amplifies your masculinity. Like a multiplier. So if you have little to begin with, no it won’t help. But if your a strong powerful dude (mentality-wise) then it will do tons.
 

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The perfect height is about 3-4" taller than your woman. If you are short, go after short women.

Assuming you survive the bone-breaking surgery without complications, and it does heal correctly, you are almost guaranteed to get arthritis where the breaks heal as you get older. You will spend a lot of time in pain wishing that you did not have an elective surgery just to try to get girls.
 

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Let me get this right. You are going to spend thousands of your dad's money, endure massive pain and lengthy rehab, possible disfigurement, just for, as you put it many times, a stinky hole attached to a worthless piece of flesh that is way beneath you in all aspects of life, only interested in money, who you distain. What am I missing here?
 

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Richard,

look go take a walk in a Shopping Mall.

You will see couples of all possible heights. Short guys, Average guys, Tall guys... Ugly, Handsome, Fat, Skinny....

Yes, appearance matters, but that's not all. Look at the world around you!

Spending money (and health) in these ****ed up cirurgies is not a wise thing to do
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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