“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What is the name for this phenomenon?

Furyguy

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So I was having a conversation with my friend the other day. I said,

"The problem with this place isn't that there's not enough girls around. There's plenty of girls. The problem is that the male to female ratio is so terrible that all the girls are in such high demand, they all think they're ****ing goddesses and therefore consider themselves to be too good for most of us. This, in turn, causes most of them to remain single despite the fact that there's plenty to choose from."

My friend thinks this is a known occurrence with a distinct name. I was wondering if anyone knows the actual term for it.

And also how the **** do you combat it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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theunflushables

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Supply and Demand to be technical. But for the fun of creating a new phrase. Female Ego Inflation.

How to combat it: Find different females to flaunt in front of the other females. Let them get jealous and suddenly you become the one in demand. Because all women secretly hate each other.
 

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Furyguy said:
they all think they're ****ing goddesses and therefore consider themselves to be too good for most of us. This, in turn, causes most of them to remain single despite the fact that there's plenty to choose from."
It's quite understandable they think they are too good for the most of us. They get to choose and hence go for the "best" guy, be it good-looking or whatever.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its called "Limiting belief".

The best you can do is be a non-needy unaffected by emotions kinda guy, and have a vibe which demonstrates FUN and NON-NEEDYness.

You should ideally shine out among the sea of AFC guys if your vibe is right.

Regardless of the Supply to demand ratio, if a guys doesn't fvcking want anything, is just enjoying the vibe, putting out great positive energy, and giving love to people, nobody in his/her sane civil mind can really fvck with a guy like that.
 
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