"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is the most alpha zodiac sign?

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Was looking through the different signs and wondering (just for shyts and giggles), if you buy into this stuff, what is the most "alpha" zodiac sign out there? Who is more likely to be "alpha" if they are born under different signs?

Again, this is assuming you believe in this stuff.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NewGuy72

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Astrology is a bunch of garbage, just my opinion anyways. Though a lot of girls do buy into it.
 

Brighty

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NewGuy72 said:
Astrology is a bunch of garbage, just my opinion anyways. Though a lot of girls do buy into it.
I agree on both accounts, a TON of girls buy into it.

That said, I'd say Leo would be up there on the most alpha zodiac sign. They're natural leaders and they have huge egos (which is probably just as much of a bad thing as it is a good thing)

The Leo type is the most dominant, spontaneously creative and extrovert of all the zodiacal characters.
and..


They may have numerous love affairs for their love of pleasure and beauty is liable to drive them from one attractive partner to another.
:rolleyes:
 

Ice882

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Really.....

get yer game up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speakeasy

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When will people ever stop believing in astrology? Ughh...

First off constellations are just human constructs to begin with. None of the stars in a constellation have any connection to each other and can be hundreds of light years apart. But yet still, humans visually pictures and stories with the star patterns and then assume if you are born under one it somehow effects your personality and fate in life. How stupid can some people be to believe this crap??
 

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If you believe in such things....
According my astrology book, there are 6 masculine signs & 6 feminine ones. All Air or Fire signs are male, Earth & Water signs are female.
HOWEVER! By description of the characteristics of the signs, I feel the most masculine signs are : Aries, Leo, Taurus, Scorpio & Capricorn. All of these signs are supposed to be domineering, strong, stubborn and forceful, bold "Alpha Male" traits.
The rising sign (what sign was rising on the horizon when you were born) and moon sign (what sign the moon was in when you were born)also can strongly influence the Sun sign(the actual DAY you were born).

Then of course there is Chinese Astrology with another whole criteria. 12 major animals influenced by elements of water, fire, earth, metal and air…Hence my screen name Water Tiger!:rock:
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Fools!

You guys are going at it all wrong, like looking for that magic one liner that will make her invite you into the holiest of holies.

The trick is to know ALL the signs, and their encompassing date ranges (both for western and Asian astrology, in case you wanna game Asian girls) and just know which is most compatable with which.

Then whatever she is, you are her complimentary zodiac sign.

Then you can read her palm and do her Tarot card reading. You think I'm being sarcastic but I'm not. There's a reason this stuff is called "chick crack"

I saw some dude the other night at starbucks reading the palms of Two hotties, and they were both drooling over every word. But either the guy couldn't close, or he was seriously reading their palms, cause he didn't seem to get a number or anything.

Cold reading, Tarot cards, astrology is great way to weasel into the part of her mind where anything can happen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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