"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is the last thing you say to a woman on a first date?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"How do you like your eggs?" C'mon someone had to say it.:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just a kiss on the lips and "see ya".

If I'm feeling energetic I break into song and do tap dancing.
 
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Sending an email/ call a day later saying you had a nice time is a good idea, but, I dont think there is any magic lines - but I'd think the following:

1) see if you can kiss her on her lips or take her to a private area to see if you can kiss her on her lips. The chapstick or lipstick line: "Hey, is that lipstick or chapstick? <lipstick/chapstick> Good, I need to borrow some, <kiss her>. <she is wearing nothing>, then say 'Good, I wouldn't want anything going on my lips -- then kiss her if she's receptive.

<Not field tested, but brainstorming - I may do it myself on my next date and write about it>

2) if she's not ready for a lip kiss (brief kiss on her lips) and turns a cheek, then you tried, just see if you can handshake her - EUROPEAN HAND SHAKE, take her hand and kiss it on the top and say "Madmoiselle, it has been a pleausre meeting you" in a French accent or something.

The EUROPEAN hand-shake may be a more SAFE option as it's classy, humorous, and has the right effect. I may do this on my next date since it has the effect of charm. I'm debating within myself whether a lip-kiss or a European hand-shake is better.

Listen to what others are saying about last things to say, but make sure you get some kino-touch before you are leaving and wink - let the date make the last lines, and tell you she wants to meet you again, usually they do that if you are conducting a good-date. If they are not into you, and you are not conducting a good date, then it may come across as desperate if she isn't acting like she enjoyed the date, your company, or is into you.
 

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You end the date with a higher energy that you had the whole night.

ie: If you're both pretty happy about the date, hell, pick her up in a big hug and spin her around.
ie: If the date was so-so, hug her and tell her that you had a good time and that you wouldn't mind doing it again.
ie: If you both are interested in each other, then the logical step suggests a kiss.

Strive for the best impression, no matter the circumstances you are surrounded with. Let her know you want to see her again, but keeping it only a notch above the current energy saves that 'weird' effect.
 

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If you go for the kiss at the end, she might say something like "o, I don't kiss on the first date" to which I've replied "I usually don't either, but for you I was making an exception."
 

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I usually save the first kiss till the end of the first date. It's the last thing she remembers about you and plays in her mind while you're apart.

After the kiss, I'll say something like "speak to you soon. Goodnight."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whatever you want.

Just don't try and make it something that locks her into seeing you again.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I just roll over and say "You still here?" :p
 

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"Let's have sex next time."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"...and if you do, i'll kill Mr Biggles"

Seriously, that is wrong in every way...

Just be honest, say you enjoyed spending time with her, give her a kiss and walk home smugly :)
 

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INXS said:
What is the last thing you say to a woman on a first date:

-Call Me
-I'll Call You
-See you later

Anyone plan the second date at the end of the first?
It depends when it ends:up:

10pm - (Hug) I'll ttyl (Date ended early / not fun)
11pm - (Kiss) Good night sweetie
12am - (Kiss) Sweet dreams
1am-4am - Goodnight (After sex)
5am-8am - How bout some breakfast (After sex and sleep)
9am - I gotta go to work (also see above)
 

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Yuriy777 said:
It depends when it ends:up:

10pm - (Hug) I'll ttyl (Date ended early / not fun)
11pm - (Kiss) Good night sweetie
12am - (Kiss) Sweet dreams
1am-4am - Goodnight (After sex)
5am-8am - How bout some breakfast (After sex and sleep)
9am - I gotta go to work (also see above)
What if it was a day date? lol You're missing 12pm to 9pm
 

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vp171s said:
What if it was a day date? lol You're missing 12pm to 9pm
I don't know off the top of my head...
I'm almost never free at those times. lol
 

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All this isnt so technical as you may think it is my friend(s)!!!

At the end of the date you have two options:

A) If the date went well and you see clear signs she's definitely craving you, go for the kiss!

J8SNX1! How do you do that?!?

Simple! Let's use the "walking her to the doorstep" scenario. So you get to the entrance of her place, and just be relaxed and say something like "this date was really grand; so fun that it makes me wanna do something wild!!" At that note, if it were me, I'd pick her up and spin her around, then go for the kiss :D You can always be creative on this side too, but simple is just fine

ORRRRR

B) If the date went...OKAY, or average, or entirely BORING (and I mean average or boring as in she had low interest during the date or you were just a bore), just give a hug or no hug at all and just say "Hey I had a great time today/tonight. See you around!"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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