"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Metro3pilot

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ok what the hell ....did I turn this chick into an aw or what .....

takes all my calls
I end the calls
never too busy to talk
responds to emails
no emotional tampon talk
no I just want to be friends talk
no talk of boyfriend

refuses to go out with me, I'm not talking I'm busy that night, I'm talking " no I won't go out with you "

anyone seen this before, did I turn her into an AW ..... we have been out before
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If she is being so "honest" then you also be "honest" and say...I don't want a relationship with a phone. Call me when you want to go out.
 

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no, she was getting too much pleasure in shooting me down, seemed like I was being punished for something...you could hear the smile in her voice.

Jamo
if she can't figure out ..we go out he calls, I turn him down he quits calling, telling her will make no difference
 

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She is some twisted ***** and move on before anything else happens
 

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Originally posted by Metro3pilot
anyone seen this before, did I turn her into an AW ..... we have been out before
I have seen that. I guess it is called "silent LJBF".
She is not saying LJBF, but do eveything to show you LJBF.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Metro3pilot
ok what the hell ....did I turn this chick into an aw or what .....

takes all my calls
I end the calls
never too busy to talk
responds to emails
no emotional tampon talk
no I just want to be friends talk
no talk of boyfriend

refuses to go out with me, I'm not talking I'm busy that night, I'm talking " no I won't go out with you "

anyone seen this before, did I turn her into an AW ..... we have been out before
"Refuses to go out with me" This one speaks volumes. Wow, the Attention Wh0res I love to insult, slander, and put down are the types that WOULD go out with you. They want you to preferably buy them as many drinks as humanly possible, give them all of your attention, hang out with them, be hugging on them, flirt shamelessly, and finally, light their cigarettes. For some reason this is a big deal to them. Once, I handed one my lighter, and said "light it yourself, sweetheart, I only light the cigarettes of attractive women" She didnt find that amusing to say the least.

There are many types of women in this dating scene.

1. Attention Wh0res. Bottom of the barrel trash, dregs, and horrid, repulsive ****roaches. They LOVVVE to flirt with men, with no intentions of sleeping with them. They distrust other women, ESPECIALLY attractive ones. They want TONS of male attention, and are liberal with the hugs and kisses to their male "friends" and do the sexual innuendo double talk. Party girls, who know lots of men, married, unmarried, and in relationships and single. This sounds like your friend, Metro3Pilot, except she is a "phone Attention Wh0re" whatever the hell that is.

They dont put out. They are worthless human beings, but great for laughs. Next her, and start meeting other women, and screen your calls with her.

2. Female Friends. Not the "LJBF" crap, but I am talking actual female allies, who can offer female insight/perspective, have hottie friends who may hook up with you for one night stands, or who knows???!! and can even act as "spies" for you, and let you know what is REALLY going on behind the scenes. They can tell you about who they are attracted to and why, and about the ones they "nexted" and why.

They dont put out. They are invaluable and priceless. My buddy "Carrie" is my homegirl, and she tells it like it is, and has NEVER given me a bad piece of advice, and I am proud to call her a good friend.

3. Hook ups. Both one night stands, many night stands, or relationship material. These are perfect women. The ones who ARE sexually attracted to you be it for one night, one month, one year. They want to hangout with you, they want to have dinner, drinks, movies, Blockbuster night, dancin' at da club, or kareokee. They are making out with you, and then getting naked for you, and let you do to them whatever you want.

They do put out. Some you want permanently, some move on to other men, some burn out like a candle, some are there, even as time passes, sexual chemistry doesnt go away my friends. They are the reason for this website, and the reason to get up in the morning (Preferably not alone, but when you do wake up alone, it's always with the thought process of waking up "together"
 

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Originally posted by Metro3pilot
" no I won't go out with you "
Hmmm,...and you're burning calories on the mental effort it takes to figure this out? One would think that there'd be at least another 50 million eligible women who would be a far better use of this energy.

How long will you keep investing in a stock that continually loses value quarter after quarter? Like any good investor, a DJ benefits from as diverse a portfolio as he can afford.

Spin more plates my friend.
 

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all good replies ...thanks much ... had a girl from work come over last night ..started kissing her and she pulls this, I can't believe I'm doing this crap .... then takes her shirt off ...she started getting all freaky telling me she's evil ...damn she looked good though ..after her emotional breakdown , asking me if I hated her ..I decided poonany or not it was time for bed ...freaks come out at night I guess
 
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