"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is the FIRST thing you do when you enter a Club

HeyPachuco!

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Whats the first thing you do when you've payed, gone to a cloak room (if theres one) got through the doors and into the ''arena''

Do you;

A) Scan the room
B) Buy a drink and scan the room
C) Go on the prowl onto the first potential targets
D) Dance to the music :rockon:

or/and

E) Act like you're going somewhere, but really you're going to the toilets
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go straight into a set.
 

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Standard - go get three double vodka redbulls, go have a cig, then go back for three more double vodka redbulls, have a little dance, get some more drinks then start cracking onto the girls.
 

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Walk up to the bouncers shake theirs hands say what's up ... grab a drink chit chat with my buddy or whoever I'm with head to the dance floor and all along through this I try socializing with any people I can no matter if they're old lookin, ugly, hot as fuk or whateva. Jus to get rid of any pre-game anxiety you could say...Pretty much I try to act as if I have some class and not a typical clubbin douche bag :p

Then again I'm not big into clubs...I like hole in the wall bars and gaming chics at other places.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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first thing I do at a club is have fun. Whether that involves getting drunk with some friends or dancin with girls is up to me. I go out to have fun, not just meet girls. But always look for girls checkin you at the club and make eye contact for a few seconds and smile. If they make eye contact it's fair game to go up and chat it up
 

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I only went to a club 2 times but first thing i do is ..

Make eye contact with the hottest girl i could find as i am walking to a bar and wave at her. Both times i did this the girl waved back and gave me crazy confidence.

I than go get a beer and hit the dance floor..
 

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1 shot couvousier, 2 shot Vod straight
 

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If you watched a lot of guys they enter a club with their mates and walk straight over to the bar, get themselves a drink — that take a few minutes — do the ceremonial clicking of the glasses then just continue to stand their and check out their surroundings and territory — especially if it is a club they have never been before.

Then one might go of to the bathroom or they go of to watch the people on the dance floor. NEVER to this, it lowers your value. The dance floor is like the white light in poltergeist. DO NOT LOOK INTO THE LIGHT!

Prodigy746 is right. Try opening a group of hot girls the minute you enter and remember to SMILE when you enter a club.

You are either two kinds of people the observing or the observed
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HeyPachuco!

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If you watched a lot of guys they enter a club with their mates and walk straight over to the bar, get themselves a drink — that take a few minutes — do the ceremonial clicking of the glasses then just continue to stand their and check out their surroundings and territory — especially if it is a club they have never been before.
Exactly this is the norm - with majority of guys, recently I've been going in and acting a straight fool (w/out the shots), doing Jamiroquai 2-stepping and doing my ''indian cyclone'' opener towards a set. It gets noticed, even if its bafoonery LOL. Primary objective - FUN, second objective - having FUN with the sets. Clubgame isn't exactly a basic course - you gotta analyze your surroundings for other AMOGs or anyone that has potential to lower-value when your in the set - it takes time.

You are either two kinds of people the observing or the observed
Obeserved, more than everytime.
 

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The clubs I frequent...I walk in and stop and scan the place like I'm checking on my club. I speak to the bouncers, bartenders. If I'm a regular they know what I drink, I don't have to ask. I walk around and speak to people. Even strangers. I've been asked several times am I the owner because I have no fear of talking to strangers in a club. I'll spend some time introducing my friends to the people I met, then I'll sit back somewhere and have a drink. By that time I've made the rounds and I'll be getting some attention from somewhere and I'll usually go over and talk to that girl.

In spots I don't know I try to do close to the same thing, it's not as easy (not knowing anyone). So I start to meet people, guys and girls and just have short conversations (getting in sets you'd say) and not lingering around too long. Then I always speak to people after I meet them and try to introduce them to everyone else I met. Around here people are very standoffish, but if you get a few groups to mingle, then everyone starts having a good time, and it seems that women like the guy who isn't afraid to meet people and makes the party better, because they all want to be social but the fear gets in the way. Mainly my club game is social proof. I'm the guy that everyone knows.
 

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anything that i feel like doing whether it be getting a drink or getting into a set, very random...

Usually for the first few minutes i act like it's my home: I show no emotion, look like i've been there everyday of my life until a good song comes on, after that it's on. I'm in the zone...
 
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