What is the best way to increase your value?

[JohnyTheArrow]

The more money you have in your bank account, the more valuable you are.

Money, power and respect.

First you get the money, then you get power...Until then you will be respected.

Bull****.Money doesn't make you attractive it makes you a bit more interesting.You can have money and be boring,hopeless AFC which women will consider for fool and treat like walking ATM.

You need personality then money makes you powerfull.There is a lot of rich guys and they pull only by being sugardaddy.

You need combine money,looks,style,wit,personality to create value.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

In order of importance:

1. Seek a board-certified plastic surgeon and fix your facial aesthetic symmetry.
2. Pack on muscle and keep body fat 12% or below.
3. Be overconfident to the point of delusion.
4. Be grandiose or at the very least super-ambitious.

Thank Guru, once your harem comprises 10+ women, all HB9s+.

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1) is too extreme but all other is spot on

 

[zekko]

No! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9SEj4_xhn0

There is only one value. Self-respect.

Whether you're homeless or a movie star. Anything else is worthless. Ask Robin Williams. or Tony Scott. or Jim Morrison, jimi Hendrix etc etc

Hell, ask Mick Jagger: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vgtY627To8

First off, note that all those guys you just mentioned have a considerable amount of value in fame, wealth, skill, etc. Self respect is important. You have to have self respect. If I never attracted another woman in my life, I would not let a woman disrespect me.

But when you are talking about Sexual Market Value, self respect alone is not going to make you a 10, or a 9, or whatever. You have to have something going for you, even if it's something fairly intangible, like charisma.

 

[sylvester the cat]

First off, note that all those guys you just mentioned have a considerable amount of value in fame, wealth, skill, etc. Self respect is important. You have to have self respect. If I never attracted another woman in my life, I would not let a woman disrespect me.

But when you are talking about Sexual Market Value, self respect alone is not going to make you a 10, or a 9, or whatever. You have to have something going for you, even if it's something fairly intangible, like charisma.

Fair enough. In my defence op didn't specify sexual market value.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You increase your value most when you don't increase at all

You learn how to be badass mind****er and coldminded manipulator and that's all you need, something like Charles Manson on smaller scale, you are like vulture waiting and looking for vunerable and weak minded girls to exploit them.

You could increase your value by becoming millionare but it's more simple to be become skilled manipulator than millionere.You could get great body after years of hard training but its more simple to make girl fall in love with you and keep her in that trance so she eat it, even if you are fat,short or no limbs.You could get great job but its better to bind girl so she stays no matter what.

I think that if you stick around here for a while you might re-think some of your theories. Increasing value mostly to yourself and also to others is the essence of life, but doing this on your own terms is essential. This is called the art of influence and is a critically important skillset for any man.

Why would a man want to emulate Manson or be a vulture? This represents a complete degeneration of character. A man can learn the art of influence and still be a man of character and backbone.

"You could increase your value by becoming millionare but it's more simple to be become skilled manipulator than millionere"

It was far easier for me to make a million than it was to master the art of influence. Money does little but provide a few more options in life, a few creature comforts, and those are good things. But the material things it buys lose their value very quickly. The big question here, in the context of your statements, is why would a man want to do the "simple" thing? And why not do both, become a millionaire and learn the art of influence and persuasion? They go hand-in-hand. The worst loneliness in the entire world is having material possessions and no quality relationships. I know because I've been there.

I kind of get where you're coming from but I say a man should do the hard thing, take the hard road. He should take the hammer and chisel to himself and strike himself day after day in order to forge a man of character out of the hand he was dealt at birth.

A man who has declared intent to increase his value is already a valuable man, and others see it. A man who has declared intent to have a million dollars banked is already a millionaire.

In the end the only value that means anything to a man is his value to himself which spills over to the world at large. Striving to manipulate is a slow process toward self destruction. Striving to be a quality man of influence and persuasion yields incredible rewards, both tangible and intangible.

 

[nismo-4]

Lot of b.s. here. A woman needs to be attracted to you in order for your con to work. Some ugly ass mofo won't pull off any con on a hot woman. The con artist is usually good looking or has a look of value if he has none. That's why these guys can only spin plates short term. They have no value for a long term relationship because they are actually losers.

Doesn't everything seem to work when a woman is attracted or has high interest?

 

[FairShake]

I'd say have good social skills and a decent amount of confidence and you should pull often enough.

The confidence comes with the social skills so work on them. Are you too quiet? Or too talkative? Too weird? Or too bland? Too nice? Or too bad? If you interact enough you will be told the problem and start from there.

 

[zekko]

No amount of value can guaruntee you something that is unguarunteeable, i.e. happiness with women. So you might as well make money, at least when she takes half you wont be too bad off haha.

I've got to agree with this. When you make the money you can take care of yourself, whether you have women or not.

Regarding confidence, I've found that all of the types of value we've been discussing help give you confidence. Speaking of money, I remember growing up, it seemed like all my friends made more money than I did. Now maybe that shouldn't have bothered me, but it did. That situation has since reversed, and I have to say I feel a lot more confident now in this position than in the former. If you can't take care of yourself, if you can't stand on your own two feet, it's harder to be confident.

Working out, being fit can be a source of confidence.
Improving your social skills can be a source of confidence.
Looking good can boost your confidence. Etc, etc.
Pretty much anything that boosts your value can boost your confidence.