“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

What is the best way to get over a break up? Vote now!

What is the best way to handle a break up?

  • Beg her to come back to you and tell her you need her

    Votes: 1 5.0%
  • Send her presents or make grand gestures to win her back

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Write long letters/emails explaining all your mistakes and how you can put it right

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Cut all contact, delete all contact details and move on

    Votes: 11 55.0%
  • Get angry with her and send her abusive texts/emails

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Lay on a guilt trip and try to make her feel sorry for you

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Go out and bang other women

    Votes: 7 35.0%
  • Other (please give details)

    Votes: 1 5.0%

  • Total voters
    20

Jariel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2004
Messages
4,413
Reaction score
296
Location
UK
I already know the answer to this question, but I think it will be helpful for everyone going through break ups to see some poll results.

So many of us have had first hand experience of break ups, and have tried every possibility imaginable to try and win her back, and yet whenever we try to pass on our wisdom to others in that position, they tend to ignore the advice and repeat all those failed methods for themselves.

What has worked best in your own personal experience?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Renegade357

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2012
Messages
561
Reaction score
24
Location
Martinez, California
Acceptance and time is the only way.

Also I like begging because once you ruin any chance you ever had of getting back with her by being a complete wussy it should be easier to move on lol.
 

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
Once you start banging other women, you'll realize what a puss you were for even thinking about her after the breakup. There are so many hoes out there that it's completely pointless to feel bad after breaking up with one of them. Breakups are good because they lead you to a better woman.
 

Masculinity

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2009
Messages
1,906
Reaction score
547
I want to say cut all contact and wait. Assuming you were the one doing the dumping for a reason that was not terrible, your ex can become a FB. If she is the one who dumped you, however, the whole game changes. I would just go NC period.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Top