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What is the best type of row for your back?

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2nd one, also known as T-bar rows, is pretty much the same thing as far as I know?
 

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tbar and bent over bb rows are both good for your lower back, but that's not their primary purpose - that's what deadlifts are for
 

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I wouldnt say one or the other is better. Do the one you feel comfortable doing. Or rotate them every week or two.

If youre an athlete in training for competetion I would consider the dynamic rows. And where shoes when you do them. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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