"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

What is the best tip that you can give ?

WhitePimp

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2004
Messages
802
Reaction score
19
Location
New jersey
Just be cool. In every situation. If you're having a rough time or feel uncomfortable just imagine the coolest way to handle the situation and do that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Jerky Boi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 10, 2004
Messages
551
Reaction score
0
I have so much I could say, but I'll just say this tip:

Oneitis isn't always a bad thing; Especially when you get it once, get over it, almost get it again and realize how much of a dumb ass you were before. :)
 

PerfectCircle

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2007
Messages
76
Reaction score
1
Create an image of what you wanna be, An image that will give you the uttermost respect for yourself, and leave no doubt of what your capable of. Then work towards of it. One day at a time.

Learn Philosophy, Learn Psychology. Inspire yourself.
 

itishe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2005
Messages
925
Reaction score
2
Do not care what someone thinks or what she thinks.

If you want to talk to her go do it, if you want her number to ask for it. You will not get anywhere by playing it safe and never failing.
 

Vogel

Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2009
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Remember that you're always the most awesome thing that can happen to anybody.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

ALPHAROMEO

Banned
Joined
May 13, 2009
Messages
655
Reaction score
6
Location
france
next please

you don t give a f!!!§ ABOUT WHAT SHE THINKS
NEXT WOMAN PLEASE

REMEMBER IT S A NUMBER S GAME !!!!
 

fertileTurtle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2006
Messages
578
Reaction score
10
Location
South Carolina, USA
don't eat yellow snow
Why? It's great with cookies. I also like walks on the beach and golden showers on my gf.
 

romangod

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2004
Messages
1,067
Reaction score
49
Location
Canada
To thine own self be true.



Cheers!
 
Joined
Jun 29, 2006
Messages
516
Reaction score
6
Age
37
Location
Plano, Illinois
Trick my ho from head to toe and stack my loot from head to boot, 'cause I ain't Chestor the Molestor and I sure as fvck ain't Hector the Ho Protector. :up: Chuch.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Galactus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2002
Messages
708
Reaction score
19
Approach people all the time. Talk to anybody and everybody. Have a sense of humor, smile, and don't let anyone's bull**** faze you. When you have an attitude like that, you don't worry about what a chick is going to say, and you won't worry about what to say when approaching her. You will just talk about whatever, and maybe at first the conversations will go nowhere, but if you keep a pickup mindset, eventually things will start falling into place.

But you gotta get out there where people are. So leave the house.
 
Top