"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is the best thread for seroius oneitis?

the_govner

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I have the sickness. I am getting fine woman after fine woman and yet I continue to chase down the one girl I 'love' and getting nothing back.

I need one of them long, detailed, inspiring posts. Badly need to get out of this funk.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dalton

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Have A Look At This

Hi mate,

You are not alone, have a look at my post on How my believes and life were destroyed.

Peace
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Bat

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The Short Version:

The cure to one-itis is to accept the fact that this "one" is temporary and unstable. Therefore, it would be foolish of you to rely on this temporary and unstable object for source of permanent happiness and freedom from shackles of pain and loneliness.

The Long Version:

I don't have time right now. Maybe tomorrow. Or better yet, read up on some of Interceptor's posts or Rollo's posts.

And I assume you have read The Book Of Pook by now. (Google it if you haven't or need refreshment).

EDIT:

Tell us your story. Make it direct and concise. I bet you I can find multiple negatives about this "one" for you to objectively decide whether your one-itis has any grounds for reason or logic. (See: dalton's thread and my response)
 

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cherry.jop07 said:
Nice job! It's really nice link that you have shared with us.
Thanks!
NP. I specialize in this field of the game...well, more like the post-game.
 
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