"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is the best thing to wear on a casual first date?

MountainSlide

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As some of you know I was gone away for a while. And I have no clue what to wear on a first date with this super sexy woman I am seeing in a few days. We are just going to a coffee shop, so I am always kind of thinking a fairly prep look usually works. What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Skyline

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I wear plad shirts, v necks, and skinny jeans. But not too skinny.
 

Zarky

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That would entirely depend on your location, age, style, etc. etc. etc. My god man, what are your peers wearing?

I wear plad shirts, v necks, and skinny jeans. But not too skinny.
That might be ok if you're a frail teenager living in Seattle, but would get you laughed out of town if you're in Harlem or Kansas or somewhere.
 

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would go with black jeans , plain black / white / grey t-shirt and a nice blazer

make sure everything is box- fresh , Ironed and correctly fitted
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MtnMan

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I usually wear good dark jeans, well fitting v-neck, solid dark color, and fresh shoes or leather boots.
Simple, but as stated, make sure everything is well fitted, clean and fresh.
 

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Depends entirely on your body and personal style. There is no one size answer here. More detail needed.
 

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blue jeans, T-shirt(hopefully with something funny on it), hoodie/jacket depending on weather, jordans (the sneakers)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MountainSlide

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Thanks for the thoughts, unfortunately haven't purchased a fitted shirt yet (although I do have clothes that fit nicely). Really I am just trying to think of tops to wear. I have a nice pare of what seem to be semi-formal sneakers. Then I'm going to wear beige diesel jeans. For the top I'm undecided between T-shirt, dress shirt, plaid, or maybe a tshirt with a light cotton jacket overtop. I'm in my twenties and have very nice physique.
 

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Nice Jeans, v-neck tee and some nice sandals. But then again this is SoCal

Something thats clean, fits nice and casual...
 
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