"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is the best thing to wear on a casual first date?

MountainSlide

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As some of you know I was gone away for a while. And I have no clue what to wear on a first date with this super sexy woman I am seeing in a few days. We are just going to a coffee shop, so I am always kind of thinking a fairly prep look usually works. What do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wear plad shirts, v necks, and skinny jeans. But not too skinny.
 

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That would entirely depend on your location, age, style, etc. etc. etc. My god man, what are your peers wearing?

I wear plad shirts, v necks, and skinny jeans. But not too skinny.
That might be ok if you're a frail teenager living in Seattle, but would get you laughed out of town if you're in Harlem or Kansas or somewhere.
 

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would go with black jeans , plain black / white / grey t-shirt and a nice blazer

make sure everything is box- fresh , Ironed and correctly fitted
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I usually wear good dark jeans, well fitting v-neck, solid dark color, and fresh shoes or leather boots.
Simple, but as stated, make sure everything is well fitted, clean and fresh.
 

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Depends entirely on your body and personal style. There is no one size answer here. More detail needed.
 

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blue jeans, T-shirt(hopefully with something funny on it), hoodie/jacket depending on weather, jordans (the sneakers)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MountainSlide

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Thanks for the thoughts, unfortunately haven't purchased a fitted shirt yet (although I do have clothes that fit nicely). Really I am just trying to think of tops to wear. I have a nice pare of what seem to be semi-formal sneakers. Then I'm going to wear beige diesel jeans. For the top I'm undecided between T-shirt, dress shirt, plaid, or maybe a tshirt with a light cotton jacket overtop. I'm in my twenties and have very nice physique.
 

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Nice Jeans, v-neck tee and some nice sandals. But then again this is SoCal

Something thats clean, fits nice and casual...
 
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