"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is the best sex you ever had?

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Share what the best sex you ever had in a Long Term Relationship, such as special "extras" that some girls did on a consistent basis, such as "Good Morning Blow Jobs", or "Sex in different rooms", "Anal Sex", "Cumming on her face"..

.....just curious...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybnoob

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With my hand cos im still a virgin like a lot of peeople on this site
 

Qualtran

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I'm assuming you started this thread because you have something cool going on in a LTR and now you want to tell us about it...? Otherwise, it seems such things would easily be left to imagination or as was mentioned before, a porn site.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by HalfAddict
go to a porn site
Say that again, just a little louder...

Hey mods, we're getting these silly @ss posts again!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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duttylove

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i like to dress up as a jedi knight and have my companion dress up as a sith lord. then i get her to scream as she feels my lightsaber
 
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