What is the best Day Game literature

[justhe_justin]

My introduction to 'game' was the book 'The Mystery Method" by Erik Von Markovik a few weeks ago and I found it practical and insightful; however it focused primarily on picking up girls in nightlife.

I don't drink and therefore do not do the nightclub or bar scene so it's been difficult to meet women the past couple of years (sober since Oct 2018). For those mature guys with high notch counts and lots of PUA and day game experience, what resources do you recommend in terms of books, blogs, and or youtube channels for learning Day Game A-Z (experience level: novice)?

I prefer books so that I can take notes, plus I appreciate the structure and organization they offer vs blogs and youtube videos. Since game is new for me, I have zero in-the-field experience with it since I only learned a few short weeks ago (due to COVID). Prior to that I used to approach women cold and just try and fail nonstop because I didn't have a plan, and when I did, it wasn't good.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

What is your purpose, that should be asked and fleshed out before game. Through your purpose you become unavailable.

Any book on Sales will teach you more than any book dedicated to game.

 

[justhe_justin]

Any book on Sales will teach you more than any book dedicated to game.

Perhaps but I'm 30 in a few months and I don't want to re-invent the wheel.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Perhaps but I'm 30 in a few months and I don't want to re-invent the wheel.

This isn't about A wheel, this is about Your wheel and in terms of day game or any game at all, they are literally teaching you sales techniques but calling it game... So why listen to the guys that apply sales to game, when you can listen to the experts who will give you the knowledge of sales without any of the nonsense.

You are selling yourself to others, that is what game is.

All this means nothing without a purpose though.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Purpose, Sales, then game ideally, maybe others want to interject

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I'm probably verbose by now, but dealing with objections is the base of game in sales, there are various audiobooks to listen to, get them for free on audible

 

[justhe_justin]

The goal is getting laid of course. That's the purpose.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

The goal is getting laid of course. That's the purpose.

You have the right idea, but I mean purpose on a deeper level, like how you make your money, how you live, what affords you the provisions to keep up the lifestyle you want to lead.

Im still working the purpose thing out to be more accessible, bear with me, but maybe you see the point, being Unavailable through your purpose, allows you to build value in preexisting relationships, which in turn means it will also impact establishing relationships.

Man I hope I'm doing good by you here and not confusing

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

The only purpose of having a "purpose" is so that you don't get Oneitis and simp for women. Women love aloofness and non-neediness.

We can make a thread, I've derailed enough

 

[justhe_justin]

Krauser - Daygame Mastery
Roosh - Day Bang

Got Day Bang on Audible yesterday.
Daygame Mastery is kind of expensive. Worth the $60 though?

 

[justhe_justin]

The only purpose of having a "purpose" is so that you don't get Oneitis and simp for women. Women love aloofness and non-neediness.

The purpose of "purpose" is still women. Let's be real here.

I'm immune to oneitis tho I have a history of simping. Tough to get their attention while at the same time being aloof.

 

[justhe_justin]

Man I hope I'm doing good by you here and not confusing

Confused. I don't see how the extra stuff helps.

 

[SW15]

I'm immune to oneitis tho I have a history of simping.

The first step to recovery from simping is admitting a problem. You are taking constructive steps to fixing a simping problem.

 

[justhe_justin]

The first step to recovery from simping is admitting a problem. You are taking constructive steps to fixing a simping problem.

lol yah.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The first step to recovery from simping is admitting a problem. You are taking constructive steps to fixing a simping problem.

You can't "simp" if she's all into you.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Confused. I don't see how the extra stuff helps.

Leave your wallet, vehicle, clothes and anything else other than your body and mind, head out into public and see how far you make it.

Having a purpose affords you the ability to compete on a baseline level, having your basic needs being met is obviously important, but when you have options in this life, those options will lead to even more options... Those without purpose find their options very limited, to the point where competing is difficult.

 

[justhe_justin]

I guess I'll be able to answer

Leave your wallet, vehicle, clothes and anything else other than your body and mind, head out into public and see how far you make it.

Having a purpose affords you the ability to compete on a baseline level, having your basic needs being met is obviously important, but when you have options in this life, those options will lead to even more options... Those without purpose find their options very limited, to the point where competing is difficult.

That's a tough first question man. Are you sure this needs to be answered before I can learn game. Seems it could work the other way around as well:

If needs are met (including sex) one can focus on options which lead to the discovery of purpose

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I guess I'll be able to answer


That's a tough first question man. Are you sure this needs to be answered before I can learn game. Seems it could work the other way around as well:

If needs are met (including sex) one can focus on options which lead to the discovery of purpose

It's the toughest question of life bro, this is why I'm trying to get a whole section of the forum dedicated to purpose alone.

It is everything, self esteem, confidence, ability to problem solve, provide.

Im not saying rush in either, fools rush in, but it's something that should be a priority over women.