"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AKA FLEX

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If you can't get laid in Nashville, you're not trying. Other cities I personally give my thumbs up to are Charlotte, Dallas, and Columbia, SC.

I've heard great things about Austin, Texas as well, but have never been there.
 

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Why in the world Nashville? Isn't that a really conservative town?
 

Drum&Bass

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i'm moving to Atlanta in July, and my future roommates (who are already there) are getting laid left, right and center ! unfortunately it seems like all the married girls and girls in LTR are the ones they are hooking up with.

damn these cheating chicks wtf !
 

Master Bates

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I've read that the ratio of women to men is much more in favor of men on the east coast than on the west coast, just fyi.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Master Bates said:
I've read that the ratio of women to men is much more in favor of men on the east coast than on the west coast, just fyi.
Yeah I've heard that too, but all the times I visted the west coast I saw plenty of women. I think a lot of the men are station on military bases.
 

MikeEdward1973

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My best experiences have been Chicago, Washington DC, and San Francisco.

Worst, by far, was San Jose, and Baltimore.

San Jose is also known as Man Jose, for it's overwhelming male to female ratio, owing to the large number of software engineers.
 
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