"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is the best city to meet single women my age?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you can't get laid in Nashville, you're not trying. Other cities I personally give my thumbs up to are Charlotte, Dallas, and Columbia, SC.

I've heard great things about Austin, Texas as well, but have never been there.
 
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Why in the world Nashville? Isn't that a really conservative town?
 
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i'm moving to Atlanta in July, and my future roommates (who are already there) are getting laid left, right and center ! unfortunately it seems like all the married girls and girls in LTR are the ones they are hooking up with.

damn these cheating chicks wtf !
 
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I've read that the ratio of women to men is much more in favor of men on the east coast than on the west coast, just fyi.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Master Bates said:
I've read that the ratio of women to men is much more in favor of men on the east coast than on the west coast, just fyi.
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Yeah I've heard that too, but all the times I visted the west coast I saw plenty of women. I think a lot of the men are station on military bases.
 
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My best experiences have been Chicago, Washington DC, and San Francisco.

Worst, by far, was San Jose, and Baltimore.

San Jose is also known as Man Jose, for it's overwhelming male to female ratio, owing to the large number of software engineers.
 
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