"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is the best and easy Approach for a shy guy?

texaskoolguy79

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Iam a shy guy but tried of being shy and was thinking what is the best and easy Approach for a shy guy? Iam ready :woo:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you are genuinly shy, then the best way are the canned openners. These are openers that are almost guaranteed to work and have been field tested numerous time.

So you will have more confidence going into a set, knowing that what you are saying to her/them will grab their attention. Once you have started the conversation, you should start to feel more relax, build raport, and take it from there.

Make sure you do it naturally though. You dont want it to sound too canned and fake.

Look up the "Jelouse girlfriend" and the "who lies more?" routines. They always work for me.
 

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Fash said:
If you are genuinly shy, then the best way are the canned openners. These are openers that are almost guaranteed to work and have been field tested numerous time.

So you will have more confidence going into a set, knowing that what you are saying to her/them will grab their attention. Once you have started the conversation, you should start to feel more relax, build raport, and take it from there.

Make sure you do it naturally though. You dont want it to sound too canned and fake.

Look up the "Jelouse girlfriend" and the "who lies more?" routines. They always work for me.
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