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Bud_Fox
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AlejandroPA
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You should always look for median, not average
If there are 2 of us, and I have $1 net worth and you have 1 million $
Average would be around 1 mil., right ?
median net worth for ppl in 25 yrs old range is around $15.000
Hope this helps / Alex
If there are 2 of us, and I have $1 net worth and you have 1 million $
Average would be around 1 mil., right ?
median net worth for ppl in 25 yrs old range is around $15.000
Hope this helps / Alex
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MatureDJ
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My experience
For a typical university educated man, he will reach his 25th birthday basically broke. However, at this point, he will also be just past the initial provisioning phase of life, and at a great opportunity to sock away some serious cash in his 401K or IRA.
I myself have went from being broke at that age to 18 years later having retirement assets of $200K (measured at the last peak of the stock market.) It's a cliche, but the thing to do is to "pay yourself" first.
For a typical university educated man, he will reach his 25th birthday basically broke. However, at this point, he will also be just past the initial provisioning phase of life, and at a great opportunity to sock away some serious cash in his 401K or IRA.
I myself have went from being broke at that age to 18 years later having retirement assets of $200K (measured at the last peak of the stock market.) It's a cliche, but the thing to do is to "pay yourself" first.
thedeparted
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Are you aiming for average? WHy does it matter?
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
At 25 it will be quite low. Hell, in North America these days its quite low for most people at any age, most people don't really have anything except the very quickly dropping home equity, and even then they probably owe a lot on the house.
At 25.. if you didn't get an education, you've got a few years of work under your belt, but your pay most likely sucks so you're just about broke. If you went to college, you've probably recently started working with good pay, but you haven't had much time to build anything up and probably still owe college loans.
If I was to estimate, I'd say between 10-20k.
BTW that NetworthIQ site is complete bs.. unless you believe people in Arkansas, Alabama, Kentucky and Georgia are generally worth much more than people in the North East or California and farmers and factory workers are worth more than lawyers. If that's the case than middle class America needs to STFU.
At 25.. if you didn't get an education, you've got a few years of work under your belt, but your pay most likely sucks so you're just about broke. If you went to college, you've probably recently started working with good pay, but you haven't had much time to build anything up and probably still owe college loans.
If I was to estimate, I'd say between 10-20k.
BTW that NetworthIQ site is complete bs.. unless you believe people in Arkansas, Alabama, Kentucky and Georgia are generally worth much more than people in the North East or California and farmers and factory workers are worth more than lawyers. If that's the case than middle class America needs to STFU.
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
Really depends on where you live. In this country, you dont reach 25 in a sea of debt, and if you graduated from University and you're decent, you're pretty much set.
Believe it or not. Only in Colombia.
In this country, an educated person in his 25's is probably worth over 100k.However, an uneducated man that cant work over 11 or 12 hours in his 25's is worth nothing and that's what we call false positives ( They are executed extrajudicially, or they end up as covers for a failed military operation or they end up doing nothing, they're worth almost nothing after all.)
Believe it or not. Only in Colombia.
In this country, an educated person in his 25's is probably worth over 100k.However, an uneducated man that cant work over 11 or 12 hours in his 25's is worth nothing and that's what we call false positives ( They are executed extrajudicially, or they end up as covers for a failed military operation or they end up doing nothing, they're worth almost nothing after all.)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Definitely. Most likely paying off; student loans, car loans and credit cards. Maybe child support if he's extra stupid.kabatura said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
probably negative a few grand, multiply that by ten if you went to college
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
I have positive net worth.. but wtf not even close to $100,000 which is where I thought Id be at 25 when I was in high school.