"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is success rate in convincing a girl to dacne at clubs

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John_Smith

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I am just wondering how many yes/nos do you club goers have in convincing a girl to dance with you. If she either blatantly refuses and seems really disinterested, count that as a no. Anything else (e.g. she stops being interested in you afterwards), count that as a yes. I am just curious as a beginner how i measure to the more advanced bunch currently.

PS dont lie and say 100. We know thats a lie ;).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NEVER DO THAT

Never ask a girl to dance at a club....instead go to her grab her hand and say come on.....as you pull her to the dance floor....you got it?
 

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I agree with Pu$$y eater. I do one of either 2 things. I'll either talk to them off the floor and let them ask me to dance, or I'll just look them right in the eye, stick my hand out and call them over. Doing the "would you like to dance" routine has gotten poor results and I've hit clubs for several years.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67183

Check this out.

Since success/failure ratios are going to be different for each person, its pointless to ask this. While I might have a 6/10 success rate, you could do the exact same things and only get 1/10. I could copy someone else with an 8/10 and only get 3/10. Or I could get a 0/10. Just because the average number of successes on SoSuave might be 4/10 doesn't mean that will be your average... so forth and so on.
 
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