Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is success rate in convincing a girl to dacne at clubs

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John_Smith

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I am just wondering how many yes/nos do you club goers have in convincing a girl to dance with you. If she either blatantly refuses and seems really disinterested, count that as a no. Anything else (e.g. she stops being interested in you afterwards), count that as a yes. I am just curious as a beginner how i measure to the more advanced bunch currently.

PS dont lie and say 100. We know thats a lie ;).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NEVER DO THAT

Never ask a girl to dance at a club....instead go to her grab her hand and say come on.....as you pull her to the dance floor....you got it?
 

So Many Ways

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I agree with Pu$$y eater. I do one of either 2 things. I'll either talk to them off the floor and let them ask me to dance, or I'll just look them right in the eye, stick my hand out and call them over. Doing the "would you like to dance" routine has gotten poor results and I've hit clubs for several years.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67183

Check this out.

Since success/failure ratios are going to be different for each person, its pointless to ask this. While I might have a 6/10 success rate, you could do the exact same things and only get 1/10. I could copy someone else with an 8/10 and only get 3/10. Or I could get a 0/10. Just because the average number of successes on SoSuave might be 4/10 doesn't mean that will be your average... so forth and so on.
 
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