"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what is she up to?

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Okay the cute 21 year old came over for a movie and some wine, there wasn't any kissing but there was a lot of 'accidental' touching and some playfulness and flirting and some looks here and there, I did try and be subtle and go for the kiss but got the cheek and a nice cuddle.

She did say I'll call you or txt you and let's do this again...the thing is though she has a boyfriend so what the hell is she up too?

I'm confused, do females do this when a dude is in the friend zone?.

I'm not going to contact her for a while and see what happens, but does anyone else find it odd that she has a man but is spending time alone with some other dude?.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
what is she up to?
Who gives a fvck. Ok here it is, if a chick comes to your place she wants to be banged. You use the knowledge from this place to bring that out of the b!tch. If for whatever reasons she flakes or gives a clear and concise NO after you've exhausted every tactic youve learnt then you being the true man you are you stay polite, wrap up the evening , walk her to her car , walk back inside and throw her number in the rubbish.

What are you not understanding about this?
 

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Re: Re: what is she up to?

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Who gives a fvck. Ok here it is, if a chick comes to your place she wants to be banged. You use the knowledge from this place to bring that out of the b!tch. If for whatever reasons she flakes or gives a clear and concise NO after you've exhausted every tactic youve learnt then you being the true man you are you stay polite, wrap up the evening , walk her to her car , walk back inside and throw her number in the rubbish.

What are you not understanding about this?
really even when it's only the second time in person that we have spent time together?.

I never got a clear concise no, but I would hardly say I made any moves either...I wasn't sure If I should...SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND...that's a barrier to me you know, like if she ****ed me while she is seeing someone else then it's more than likely that she will do the same too me if we hooked up right?.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
YES, Really!!!



:rolleyes: Why are you wasting SoSuaves time?
How so man?, I am just seeing if anyone knows if this girl is an AW or is sizing me up for the future or just enjoys males company and likes flirting.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
I am just seeing if anyone knows if this girl is an AW or is sizing me up for the future or just enjoys males company and likes flirting.
Shes all of the above and none of the above. It has nothing to do with anything.

You either fvck her or you fvck her off, everything else is irrelevant at this point.

edited to add: Apologies if I came off as abrupt before but seriously mate you were asking questions that nobody with over 200 posts should be asking.

So to recap, all those questions your asking about her true agenda are irrelevant to you, thats HER reality and none of your business.
You only exist in your reality and your agenda, she either steps inside or shes gone and right now your agenda and reality is to get into her pants, its that simple.

Whether shes an AW/stringing you along/has a borefriend etc is NOTHING to do with you because your the man here whos calling the shots and decides which direction it will go.

Is this making sense?
 
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( . )( . ) has it downpat....you should start your own website
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Shes all of the above and none of the above. It has nothing to do with anything.

You either fvck her or you fvck her off, everything else is irrelevant at this point.

edited to add: Apologies if I came off as abrupt before but seriously mate you were asking questions that nobody with over 200 posts should be asking.

So to recap, all those questions your asking about her true agenda are irrelevant to you, thats HER reality and none of your business.
You only exist in your reality and your agenda, she either steps inside or shes gone and right now your agenda and reality is to get into her pants, its that simple.

Whether shes an AW/stringing you along/has a borefriend etc is NOTHING to do with you because your the man here whos calling the shots and decides which direction it will go.

Is this making sense?
Very much so.:cheer:
 
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