Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is she thinking????

Tricky44

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This one girl i know is a sophomore and im a senior, so that means we dont have many classes together. But I do see her for about an hour every morning. (btw, im 17, she is 16)
We started talking about a month ago as friends and we I take her home every so often. The first day I took her home, she wrote down her cell and house number just like that, and said I should call her sometime. I didnt even ask for it. I even mentioned something about taking her to prom, and she said "Ill hold u to that". So she gives me all these signs that she wants to go out sometimes. But when I do ask what she is doing for the weekend, she always has stuff to do on fridays and saturdays. She is cheerleader too, so im sure she is busy sometimes. She said I should call her Sunday so we can see each other, but I have a feeling she will bail out. We will see. What do you guys think? What is goin through her mind? Maybe she is really trying to not look desperate... i dont know. :confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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hey with postive signals like that, you can saume she is just very busy on fridays and saturdays, so give her a call on sunday, im sure shes inrested, and you can be 98% sure of that unless she starts to flake out on you.
 

LikRetsam

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*Creates potion of greater intelligence*

Here ya go.
 

Michael Chief

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hey, chill and relax. nothing's wrong - just maybe except how you are asking for the "date."
When you're asking her what she's doing over the weekend, what goes through your mind? are you thinking something like "I really like her and i hope she will say yes...i better not screw this up!" or are you thinking more along the lines of "hmm, she's into me so i think i'll give her a chance to spend some time with me."
If you're thinking the former - then change your mindset to the latter.
If you're already thinking the latter - then ignore everything i just said lol

Another possibility is that she's trying to constructively use the game of hard-to-get. Just respond by playing HARDER TO GET lol. Don't overdo it though. Girls play hard to get to not look desperate and clingy. They see being clingy and desperate unnattractive in guys so they assume that guys are looking for the same things in them. They tend to forget that what we mostly look for is looks lol.

Another possibility (and more likely possibility) is that she's actually just busy on those days. Yeah, who cares? Just brush it off.

Best of Luck
 
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