What is she thinking???

[HollowHorizon]

Hey, i met this girl witch in my point of view she is a hb 9 i am a highschool junior. I was at a club and they where playing the slow dances now as shy as i am i diden't ask anyone to dance. So i sat in the chair and watched everyone and then suddenly this hb-9 says "do you wanna dance?" so i danced with her and after as the night went by i talked with her and hung out with her the whole time. She seems to make a lot of me-too statements as if she is trieng to make it seem as if she is very simillar. We are two totaly different pepole.She is a model. I am a cook for a bar. I never danced with a hb-9 or even associated with one in that way. I have no idea what this girl really see's in me it dosen't make very much sence. but she seem's to be very interested and i have no idea why. The other night i was talking to her and we where sharing some low-risk disclosure and some medium risk disclosures and it seemed to go well. Before i got off the phone she asked me if i wanted her to call me instead of me having to call her witch i initaly did that night(3 times). I said yes,call anytime you want and talked for a minut or two and said goodnight it seems as if all is going well but i am still clueless what i am doing that is so right? How come this girls perception of me is positive and pretty much whatever i tell her she isen't quick to judge and is openminded. I am from the streets and she is from the suburbs two different worlds. I am going roller sk8ting with her on tuesday . when i said i was going she quickly said she will be there.

So guys what am i doing right with this hb-9?
(so i can keep it up)
What have i done wrong but at this point is still acceptiible?
Do you think this girl is different than most?
Thanks for your comments and suggestions guys

 

[Black Bahindian]

First of all, you should get rid of the notion that it is some sort of fluke that an attractive woman would be interested in you. Unless you have a Quasimodo-like appearance, you need to have the mindset that you have the ability to get with any woman regardless of looks. There have been many average looking guys that have gotten with attractive women. Just look at Janet Jackson and Jermaine Dupri.

Also, I think you need to elaborate on your experiences with this woman a little bit more. I can't tell if she has high IL for you, or she's just looking for a cheap thrill to give her attention(though my sixth sence tells me it's this, don't quote me on that though).

Some info on the roller-skating date could help us.

 

[Reto]

GET RID OF THE SELF DOUBT !!!

It is gonna kill you! I was the same way when I was your age. "How could this hottie see anything in me?" You keep thinking that way, she's gonna pick it up too, and drop you.

For what ever reason, she's into you. Just go for it. You're the prize! You're not gonna marry her. You're not gonna have kids with her. You're just gonna hang and have fun.

 

[Skel]

"I have no idea what this girl really see's in me it dosen't make very much sence. but she seem's to be very interested and i have no idea why"

dumbest statement of the day but let me ask a question. HAVE YOU READ YOUR DJ BIBLE?

 

[Bungo Pony]

I have no idea what this girl really see's in me it dosen't make very much sence. but she seem's to be very interested and i have no idea why.

Why are you worrying about what she sees in you? You just had a hb approach you and ask for a dance, which is incredibly rare for a woman to do. You didn't have to put any effort into picking her up. You have an easy entrance to this one. You should be more worried about how you'll be able to walk when she's done fvcking your brains out!

Basically, it's not important what attracted her to you (without conversation), but how you proceed with this hottie. Keep the dates simple & fun, keep up the kino, and tease the 5hit out of her. If she falls down while rollerskating, tell her it was a good trick and to teach you how to do it. I can't help but stress the importance of YOU having fun on this date. You're not her entertainment, you're your own entertainment. Create a fun date for yourself, and she'll follow.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

You called her 3x in a day?? Good lord that's a lot. I tend to agree with Black Bahindian, seems like she loves the attention your giving her. So stop being a wussy and attract her to you. Give a little, take a little back. And go read the fukin' bible!! (Can a get in trouble for saying fukin' and bible in the same sentence?? LOL)



PIMP

 

[DJnomore]

Dude if she is into you....

Don't change a damn thing!!!!!

 

[HollowHorizon]

Thanks

Thanks, i will take a mental note to have fun. She called me at seven i talked to her for 2 hours and she asked me if im going sk8ting still and when i replied yes she said yay i know it sounds a bit silly but this is working out. Now she is going to call me at her lunch time when she was in school. Earlier in the convo we had we where talking about lunch at school and i said i used to call pepole during my lunch break(might i add she said this an hour later) so i know she is listening and i will see her tommorow and yes i am studying the bible in depth still. I don't know where i would be without you guys (even at times you can put me down or show critism ) I will do my best to be me and if thats whats working i will keep it up

 

[HollowHorizon]

Oh yeah Thanks pepole