"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is sex like for her?

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my girlfriend told me that sex was overrated...we haven't done it but she was saying that she had a feeling it won't be that great...for me as a guy i know it'll be more than great cuz if my one hand can already do the job imagine what it'll feel like inside her...i'm just a little worried that sex won't be exciting and fun for her...wrong forum?...lol...based on experience, can someone give me a little insight?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She has just not received good sex. Seriously. Have great awesome sex with her and watch her change. These girls are awesome to have, especially to see them change after they get some real booty. So you better blow her mind away when you do get to it!
 

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omgwtfm8 said:
She has just not received good sex. Seriously. Have great awesome sex with her and watch her change. These girls are awesome to have, especially to see them change after they get some real booty. So you better blow her mind away when you do get to it!
whoa!...hehe...shiver...lol...we'll do it really soon. i cal feel it. any day now. how exactly do i blow her mind?
 

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omgwtfm8 said:
So you better blow her mind away when you do get to it!
Heh. Not that there would ever be any pressure or anything. Lol.

Dude, that's NOT going to help him.
 

So pimp its scary

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No it's true, I've turned a couple girls into slvts... not that they were virgins, one said she was but seeing how many guys she fvcked within the two months after we broke up where we still talked, raised a few doubts.

It's amazing the shyt that comes out of a womans' mouth when you plug her proper.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hmmm...is it safe to say that 99.9% of women will enjoy sex?...sometimes when i watch porn and shyt, it looks as if the man is the only one enjoyin the sex and the woman just going a long with it.
 

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lmao... I swear that the majority of women secretly enjoy sex ALOT more than men, notice the capital alot. I mean, when girls are getting plowed, they can cvm 2,3,10 or more times in one session... meanwhile the guy has just one and then is done.
 

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It depends on what you mean by sex.

It's a proven fact that only 20% of women can come from fvcking alone. That's one in five. So your odds of just sticking it in and having her roll around in ecstasy are pretty slim.

It takes a good hand or a good tongue to get a woman off, usually.
 

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realsmoothie said:
It depends on what you mean by sex.

It's a proven fact that only 20% of women can come from fvcking alone. That's one in five. So your odds of just sticking it in and having her roll around in ecstasy are pretty slim.

It takes a good hand or a good tongue to get a woman off, usually.

I don't know where these figures come from, that sounds ridiculous. I've only slept with 2 and they came often. so that means out of 10 girls i would have had to pick those exact 2? c'mon no way. The girl im with now comes within 5 mins. and she def aint faking u can tell.
 

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Come on, women have the best part of the deal. Let's see...

1. They can have cl1toral and vaginal orgasms.
2. They can experience multiple orgasms and don't need to stop in between.
3. They don't even have to have sex to orgasm.
4. Their orgasms can last for ages.
5. Their g-spot is easily accessable.
6. A woman's orgasm fills her entire body with pleasure.
7. Women have erogenous zones all over their body.
8. Women don't have to wear condoms.

This is another reason not to put women on pedestals. By having sex with them we are doing them a great favour! :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't believe that 20% of women can *** from sex. I've had sex with 3 chicks and they all came. Someone must not have the goods to think only 20% can *** from sex.
 

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vagrant said:
my girlfriend told me that sex was overrated...we haven't done it but she was saying that she had a feeling it won't be that great...for me as a guy i know it'll be more than great cuz if my one hand can already do the job imagine what it'll feel like inside her...i'm just a little worried that sex won't be exciting and fun for her...wrong forum?...lol...based on experience, can someone give me a little insight?
Some women are frigid. Just fact of life - maybe she's one of them.

Some didn't learn to orgasm.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
I don't know where these figures come from, that sounds ridiculous. I've only slept with 2 and they came often. so that means out of 10 girls i would have had to pick those exact 2? c'mon no way. The girl im with now comes within 5 mins. and she def aint faking u can tell.
Guys on here always object whenever someone cites the 70-percent rule of thumb, but it's true that about seven out of ten women cannot orgasm through penile-vaginal intercourse alone. But first, an explanation:
Only about 30 percent of women orgasm through penile-vaginal intercourse alone. Because the nerve endings are in the ****oris, and not the vagina, using hands, fingers, a vibrator, or even pubic bones and hips to place pressure on and pleasure the ****oris during intercourse or sexual play increases the chance for orgasm.

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3757.html
http://www.cnn.com/2006/HEALTH/11/27/big.o/

http://blogs.webmd.com/sexual-health-sex-matters/2005/12/orgasm-odds.html

http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/probs_difficultyorgasm.shtml

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,158859,00.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intercourse

http://www.answers.com/topic/sexual-intercourse

http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/371

http://loveandhealth.worldgroups.com/Article.cfm?Topic=2&SubTopic=18&Article=194

http://www.thirdage.com/news/archive/ALT03011102-02.html

http://www.doctorg.com/Grafenberg.htm

And that's for starters...
 

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vagrant said:
whoa!...hehe...shiver...lol...we'll do it really soon. i cal feel it. any day now. how exactly do i blow her mind?
Put gun to head and pull trigger.
 
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