What is PUSH/PULL ? And what is the difference from Qualfying...

[toot86]

I have heard alot about push/pull but only as a technique and not indepth and examples...


it seems like pretty self explanatory but not really ..also what about push pull qualifying

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Push and Pull is when you "push and pull" her through different emotional states.Neghits are a good example when you start out good and then "unkowningly bring her down" A more popular and easier technique is the "married couple" one

Ie
U: Wow that lunch looks good did you cook it herself
Her: Yea
U: Just what I'm looking for in a wifey lets get married sweety
Her: LOL *thinking is this guy for real?Does he like me*
U:Wait no I don't like that hairstyle, the wedding is SOO off.
Her: What already? *Why doesn't he like me anymore? Is my hair THAT BAD?* (women, insecure creatures aren't they, lol )
U: Well you do have good taste in clothing so you can dress me when I go to work and the children will match, that's a must
Her: Haha *thinking "i'm good in his books again*
U: Yea, I'm colorblind so I'd have our kidsd walking around in purple and red... does that match?......


Yo get the idea, this one is soo gold because she also can vizualise a future with you ifyou always talk about the future with her, you are C&F, you are busting her a lot, you are creating rapport, pretty much everything (try and get some kino in their when you make her your wife again


As for qualifying that is when she says things which in her mind our important and show she is desirable or has certain positive characteristics. Also telling stories of escapades or going the extra mile to get your approval

For example after she sees you talking to antoher girl she can say something to you like

Her: Don't you hate it when guys hang off you and you don't want them to? That happens to me ALL THE TIME.

It is pretty lame when someone qualifies themself to you...

 

[Pap]

Mic, that's some great examples. That's exactly the kind of things that I do while I'm in ATTRACT mode. I'll post a FR (my HB10 GF) that demonstrates lots of push/pull and qualifying for you. If you want more examples, I suggest you check out TD's post on Qualifying and "How to PU for Real" on mASF.

Cheers,

Papa
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[Pap]

PS: Qualifying can involve throwing out tests for the girl to pass, such as "Are you adventurous, cuz I can't hang out with you if you aren't adventurous?...oh, so what's the most adventurous thing you've ever done." or "Can you X Y Z?"...however, qualifying yourself can often come across as eager.

PPS: TD wrote a great post on what to not do so as to not qualify yourself, which I found extremely valuable. Many of you guys that also read mASF are probably already familiar with it; however, for the guys on the DJ board, I'll crosspost it for you as a new thread here.

 

[toot86]

Originally posted by Pap
PS: Qualifying can involve throwing out tests for the girl to pass, such as "Are you adventurous, cuz I can't hang out with you if you aren't adventurous?...oh, so what's the most adventurous thing you've ever done." or "Can you X Y Z?"...however, qualifying yourself can often come across as eager.

PPS: TD wrote a great post on what to not do so as to not qualify yourself, which I found extremely valuable. Many of you guys that also read mASF are probably already familiar with it; however, for the guys on the DJ board, I'll crosspost it for you as a new thread here.

Thanks man!