What is Overcharming?

[bigneil]

What does it mean if a woman says you are overcharming?

Example: She kisses you and says "I am attracted to you but you are overcharming. It's a red flag to me". Meanwhile the relationship stagnates at that point.

Note: this topic is free of the (S-word).

 

[bigneil]

She said she would explain it over dinner. Maybe she is the player.

 

[seethehoop]

If you said this to her I would see it as push pull. Just cos its the other way round doesn't mean it isn't still a little push pull. My understanding of game is to use tactics women already employ on them so I see this in that same light. She pulls you in by tellingyou she is attracted but then pushes you back by giving a red flag.

 

[SoSuave666]

She likes what you are selling. She pretends to have issues with it because she doesn't want to sleep with a player and get bounced (anti-slvt). The very fact that she is having dinner with you should let you know it's not even close to a big deal with her. She is putting up the facade of "protecting herself" so you, her, her friends, anyone and everyone, won't think less of her when she inevitably does sleep with you.