"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is more desirable in a woman - sexual availability or intelligence?

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STR8UP said:
Are you kidding?

You should have intelligent MALE friends around to discuss intellectual topics.

It has been my experience that women who are "smarter than the average bear" aren't the most feminine specimens.

I want a FEMININE chick with a pleasant demeanor, not some Einstein philosopher.

Honestly, I can't even believe this is a real question. Any man with a fair amount of "T" flowing through his veins wants a woman for her body, not for her mind.
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I agree STR8UP.

Also many guys, just want a nice rack anyway.

Yes granted for settling down, if you ask guys here they may give the stock answer, but if a girl walked around the corner with a smoking hot body, a nice pair of tits - a smile on her face, long flowing blonde hair - most guys here if they are honest wont be thinking about her IQ. Thats for sure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MatureDJ said:
I've been thinking. Is it better to have an intellectual woman with whom I could discuss things, but who may have a less than desirable attitude about sexual availability (i.e., "not in the mood, has a lot of "headaches", etc.), or to have a standard intelligence woman (or perhaps lower), but that has a good attitude about sexual availability (i.e., she is ready to spread her legs whenever I'm in the mood, etc.)?

I suppose this a type of analysis similar to the dilemma of the semi-chunky cutie vs. the somewhat dog faced, hot figure chick.

What do you think?
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Defintely the hot lower intelligent woman, as long as she's not incapable of holding a normal conversation. Looks is the absolute number one factor in attraction for me, like most guys out there.
 
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Most important

1) Character
2) Looks


Far far down the list: intelligence

STR8UP is correct, if you want to talk investments, politics, go find your guy friends, that's what they are for. No one in their right mind discusses these serious matters with girls.

And yes STR8UP is correct again, the really *educated* and intelligent girls are so...masculine. They are all logical, it's really annoying to me. I prefer the feminine ones.
 
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