"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what is medical school?

lildevil

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Ever had the time to decide....what u want to be when u grow up...?i know i know...just like many of You Ive never gotten interested in my future all this time ive had to overcome great odds....just like some of You guys?

Im in my third year of high school and decided to take the risk in to being a heard alot about medical school Im in high school and I want to be a psychiatrist...but since a psychiatrist is the person that deals with the prescription for mental illness...depression and other disorders


what is medical school and what does it take to get in there...from some of the things ive read theres alot of competion in order to qualify....I want to be a psychiatrist and I need to know what it takes...I dont want to get a surprise
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I want to be a psychiatrist and I need to know what it takes

About half a lifetime of college and residency, and good grades the entire time. After high school you would major in a science, like bio or chem, or some colleges have specific pre-med majors. You will have to study more than other majors. Then you study for the mcat, the entrance exam. With a high gpa and high mcat, you might get in. Psychiatrists have to finish med school and a residency, which might be in an environment like an ER where you would never work as a psychiatrist. Then after all of that is over, I think they go back and study more psychiatry?

You might consider community college right after hs graduation. It tends to be easier to get good grades, they count the same, and it's much cheaper. There's no reason to go 40 grand in debt for the first two years of school, especially when you will be in school so long. There are young doctors with student loan bills well into six figures.
 

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While we are at this subject

can someone post or give advice for a first year college kid who wants to get into dentistry

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Charm&Style said:
While we are at this subject

can someone post or give advice for a first year college kid who wants to get into dentistry

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Major in bio or chem or something like that. Google that sh*t.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You might consider community college right after hs graduation. It tends to be easier to get good grades, they count the same, and it's much cheaper. There's no reason to go 40 grand in debt for the first two years of school, especially when you will be in school so long. There are young doctors with student loan bills well into six figures.


Check here for stats.
http://www.aamc.org/

If you want to get into a top med school you need to graduate from a great undergrad pre-med program with a perfect gpa and great letters. You can get into a state school with less but competition is still harsh.

Very few of the people that I graduated hs with who wanted to be doctors actually went on to become doctors.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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