"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is it with Latina girls?

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Latina women in so cali are very tough for the average looking white guy (even a guy with some game!). The hot latinas, the ones wearing tight ass jeans, tight shirts, and with luscious bodies need a guy with massive b@lls.

You can try the friend approach first. This can melt their cold stance, and once you get some rapport and commonality, turn it up from there. If your b@lls are big enough, you can get them. C&F, the whole routine. Even ice cold latinas aren't immune from feeling gut level attraction to a guy.

I think they tend to stereotype and lump all white guys into the "dork" category. But prove them wrong.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also, a few more comments about latina women:

As a very broad stereotype, they tend to party more than the average white, asian or even black girl. I don't really know why, but I've seen it constantly.

Latinas slightly down in the looks dept (say 6.5, still cute) can be really cool. They don't have the super thin bodies, but their personalities can really come though. And they have more curves than their 6.5 asian or white counterpart.

I would never approach a Latina girl with a general question like that. It's too easy for it to be a one word answer. I always ask opened ended questions, like why or how.
 

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Originally posted by ManOMan
rejected? who got rejected?

I couldnt even get her to say more than one word, let alone make a move to get rejected.

Yes, Ive been rejected by all kinds. But im just saying the latina's are just more aloof and unfriendly to me.

They just all seem to give me a cold shoulder right off the bat (Ive noticited this MANY times)

White women, asians, italians, medeterranians will at the very least, talk to me,
Italians are medeterranians and medeterranians are latin as well
 

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Well...

The problem is that they're ALL the exact same way. In fact, they're not really people, if you think about it.

There's absolutely nothing you can do about it.

Try black women--they all have big @sses and can dance. Be careful, though, cuz they pedal drugs on the side.
 
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You sound like a DEVIL!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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