what is it about starbucks?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

CGE333

Senior Don Juan

Jun 30, 2008

Backbreaker in SoCal i am more partial to Coffee Bean. If you're in Del Mar the one i am referring to is 10-15 minutes away from you in Mission Valley (there are others closer to you). Not only does this one have the normal "professional hotties" on their way to work, lunch, etc, but you also have USD and SDSU within minutes away so you get all of those hotties as well. I used to live close there and between my apartments pool and the coffee shop i would see 15-20 potential miss america's on a daily basis.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.