What is It About Gyms That Seems to Attract Flaky/Shallow Kinds of Women?

[drmeathead]

women who go to the gyms and look good are often the same ones who go to the clubs and look good. like RT said, rediculous numbers of the population are unattractively overweight. that means simply by staying skinny/toned those women put themselves in the top third ie 7+. using thetheory of which the name i long ago forgot, that means the 5s and up are hitting on them. using a bell curve these women then get the pickings of 50 percent of the male population. couple that with women looking out for the BBD all the time. the answer to the question as why to they flake? THEY CAN...in their own minds anyway. It is simple supply and demand.

i will say that just because people work out and look good does not necessarily make them shallow broken or stupid. in fact alot of people that work out are either pushing themselves to get the most out of themselves in all aspects of life or are working less feverently just because they realize that an active healthy lifestyle is good for them.

 

[synergy1]

2. If you concentrate on searching for these qualities you will find it, even though very few people are 'deep.'


Your first post was just as horrible as this generalization. People can look at others and instantly come up with set of false assumptions ; read this person is not deep. How do you know all of this? Can you read minds? Do you see a guy who is in good shape and assume they are as shallow as the kiddy pool? I contest that indeed you are the one who is shallow, and unable to cope with people who have different methods of self validation.

People look at me and see average looking jock, bereft of intelligence, drive or overall merit. An intelligent person would be unassuming, and let their interactions with me act as the litmus which derives conclusions about their person.


3. I said alot of people develop their bodies just for the attention they would get from the society. Now, I did not say all. Ofcourse there are people who develop their bodies for themselves, and not for just attention and validation from the opposite sex or the society.

Why is this relevant? If someone puts in the hard work, dedication, and sacrifices to make something happen to make them happy, who the heck are you to crush it with your hammer of justice? I like the attention I get when girls say I am hot, and anyone in this situation will agree on one level or another. You just sound like a jealous insecure man.


4. Ideally the outside should always match the inside - but haven't you heard of 'never judge the book by its cover'??

and you say you are unassuming. Way to contradict yourself.

 

[wjh]

I highly doubt any girl I'd be into would NOT frequent a gym.

 

[Mr.Positive]

The body fuels the mind.

For me, the gym is mostly mental actually. It's me against the weights, it's a state of focus, and when I leave I'm completely mentally 'sharp', I feel great! ..as if I just returned from a vacation.

I rarely talk to anyone at the gym, I'm not there to socialize.

Does that make me lack mental depth? Or does that make me arrogant and self-centered?

No, people always look at someone who works out like he (or she) is compensating for something, or lacking something inside.

To be a complete, it's about balance. To achieve balance you must exercise your mind AND body. Try sitting on your ass all day eating mcd's and see where your mind is.

 

[mrRuckus]

The women aren't shallow...they just don't see any reason to immediately reveal the entire depth of their personality to some random suitor at the gym. As a superior male, you're expected to understand that. If you don't, it's obvious you don't deal with women that often.

I missed the part where he said about actually approaching them. Color me stupid.




I still think they're mostly shallow, though. Most everyone is. Why would gym goers be an exception? There for health? Not most.. maybe the older and really fat ones. Women (okay a lot of men too) have child-like minds. That's shallow to me. Don't judge a book by it's cover? How about the first chapter. Yup, sucks, how often does it get really good after the first chapter? Sometimes, but not frequently.

There's usually nothing behind the b1tch shield except a cargoless skull.


I'm even dating a girl that frequents the gym 5 days a week, so i know not all are. She's pre-med.

 

[Luveno]

A simple question has a simple answer: ...because that's where the hot guys are.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Frank, I've always wondered this. Where the hell is this gym you are going to? At my gym, it's all meat-heads, high school girls and middle-aged women. I actually met a bunch of guys the other day who are training for those World's Strongest Men competitions that are on ESPN late at night.

Every female interaction you seem to have is at the gym. Maybe you should get some variety, like going to a club or a bookstore or something? I have a good feeling you live somewhere on the west coast or a warm place like Florida. If this is the case, a lot of the women there will be shallow. I have a best friend who lives in Miami and his reports to me are that his gym is filled with bimbos and airheads who have fake boobs, fake lips and fake everything else.

 

[Stavrogin]

Today, a number of hot chicks were in the "spinning" class. As soon as class was over, they all took off. Not one of them hit the weights. Has anyone else noticed that hardly any women lift weights?

 

[wjh]

Today, a number of hot chicks were in the "spinning" class. As soon as class was over, they all took off. Not one of them hit the weights. Has anyone else noticed that hardly any women lift weights?

Yes. The ones with a bit of muscle on them are the hottest, too. It's unfortunate that most only seem to care about dropping pounds. I suppose for the majority of non-active gym-goers that's at least something but, nothing beats a lean girl with some muscle tone (for me).

Then again, maybe the ones you saw were just the New Years resolutioners.

 

[Frank2500]

In Response to MikeYike's Question

MikeYikes, I had answered this question before because someone else had asked it a long time ago...I think the poster who first asked it was Latino Man. So I'm probably repeating my answer. Yes, the gym is one of the few places where I get to interact with and see a lot of women on a regular basis. Why? Because I live in the suburbs, far away from the city of Philadelphia, where most of the bars, clubs, bookstores and lounges are located. I no longer have a car and haven't had one in two years. There's nothing exciting close to the area where I live and you need to have a car to get to anywhere that might remain open after 8pm. So I'm restricted to meeting women either at my gym or on the street, in bookstores and cafes, etc., when I am able to catch the train from my neighborhood into the city during the day.

 

[synergy1]

Synergy? More like dead-energy.

Points refuted? Zero, Go take your soulfulness elsewhere.