"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is her interest level?

Aspiring Don Juan

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So, there's this one girl who I've been into for almost a year. No matter how many girls I flirt with or talk to she just stays on my mind. She's maybe a HB 7.5 at the best. But I'm just curious as to what you guys think her IL is. Whenever I'm talking to her friends, she always jumps in and tries to see what we're doing. Today, when we were in a group, she kind of stuck with me, followed my lead. But, whenever I talk to her, she always stares down at the ground so I have no idea. But she still responds pretty well, without making eye contact. When I kino her, she doesn't pull away, but just kind of takes it. She also never texts first. I just really need to know so I can decide whether or not to make a move, or move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dgwizdal

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Interest is high however she is probably a shy chick or thinks you're out of her league. Her body language (ground staring) gives it away completely and is always a good indicator of dominance - especially as she is receptive to your kino and follows you. You're a young guy - be glad you found this stuff early...

Isolate, hold her hand, and get her to loosen up a bit. Keep it light, make her laugh, do a little ****y/funny but be nice. Gotta get her to feel comfortable before you start the gamin. Step it up in small increments.

To be young again...:crackup:
 
Aspiring Don Juan

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Dgwizdal said:
Interest is high however she is probably a shy chick or thinks you're out of her league. Her body language (ground staring) gives it away completely and is always a good indicator of dominance - especially as she is receptive to your kino and follows you. You're a young guy - be glad you found this stuff early...

Isolate, hold her hand, and get her to loosen up a bit. Keep it light, make her laugh, do a little ****y/funny but be nice. Gotta get her to feel comfortable before you start the gamin. Step it up in small increments.

To be young again...:crackup:
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Yea man found this stuff after i got rejected when i was 13 loool. I read everything, but never applied it, so that's what I'm doing now. When we met we were 12, and she was extremely shy, but since she was really pretty, the popular girls took her in and changed her. Thanks for the help though.
 
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