EternalBachelor
Don Juan
A lot of recent posters talk about game? What is it? I sort of get what you mean but not completely.
What is game? How can you improve it?
What is game? How can you improve it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What is game?
- Thread starter EternalBachelor
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tha Realnezz
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When I say game ...I mean verbal game.Literally what you say to women.
It actually means your whole style when it comes to picking up women.Everything from your job to your car can affect can be considered part of your game.
It actually means your whole style when it comes to picking up women.Everything from your job to your car can affect can be considered part of your game.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
One must understand 'the rules' in order to truly have 'game.'
EternalBachelor
Don Juan
that sound realluy wise. Explain!
Game is just a slang word...if you have a lot of game, you pick up women easily. If you need to improve your game, that just means you have to get better at flirting, etc. "Game" isn't some technical term or anything like that...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Flirting is just a skill, like approaching and closing. Just because someone knows how to do one or all of those things does not necessarily mean that he has 'game.'
Think of the guys on this site that have read thread after thread in the forum on what to do and not to do on a date. Yet every other day there are post about what gifts to buy after a month anniversary, how long should he talk to her on the phone and where to go on a date. These guys may have the skills but they definitely DO NOT have 'game.'
To have game, you must understand AND accept the laws or 'rules' of human interaction as it pertains to men and women. These rules include but are not limited to understanding that men are driven by logic while women are driven by emotion; that women prefer bad boys over nice guys even though they may not admit it and not to judge a woman by what she say but by what she does.
Being able to understand, accept and most of all knowing how to use DJ skills effectively with these and other rules is what gives you 'game.' To be successful you need to study, experiment and adjust your skills to become more effective with your skills. With enough practice you may become so successful in your interactions with women, it will feel as if you are playing a game in that you interact with women solely for your amusement.
What's even more exciting is that if you continue to learn and enhance your skills to match your personality, you may get to the point where you are successful even though you you don't use all of the DJ rules, that you start creating your own rules that work very well with your personality and skills. Why not? It's just a game.
Think of the guys on this site that have read thread after thread in the forum on what to do and not to do on a date. Yet every other day there are post about what gifts to buy after a month anniversary, how long should he talk to her on the phone and where to go on a date. These guys may have the skills but they definitely DO NOT have 'game.'
To have game, you must understand AND accept the laws or 'rules' of human interaction as it pertains to men and women. These rules include but are not limited to understanding that men are driven by logic while women are driven by emotion; that women prefer bad boys over nice guys even though they may not admit it and not to judge a woman by what she say but by what she does.
Being able to understand, accept and most of all knowing how to use DJ skills effectively with these and other rules is what gives you 'game.' To be successful you need to study, experiment and adjust your skills to become more effective with your skills. With enough practice you may become so successful in your interactions with women, it will feel as if you are playing a game in that you interact with women solely for your amusement.
What's even more exciting is that if you continue to learn and enhance your skills to match your personality, you may get to the point where you are successful even though you you don't use all of the DJ rules, that you start creating your own rules that work very well with your personality and skills. Why not? It's just a game.