EternalBachelor
Don Juan
A lot of recent posters talk about game? What is it? I sort of get what you mean but not completely.
What is game? How can you improve it?
What is game? How can you improve it?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What is game?
- Thread starter EternalBachelor
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tha Realnezz
Master Don Juan
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When I say game ...I mean verbal game.Literally what you say to women.
It actually means your whole style when it comes to picking up women.Everything from your job to your car can affect can be considered part of your game.
It actually means your whole style when it comes to picking up women.Everything from your job to your car can affect can be considered part of your game.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
One must understand 'the rules' in order to truly have 'game.'
EternalBachelor
Don Juan
that sound realluy wise. Explain!
Game is just a slang word...if you have a lot of game, you pick up women easily. If you need to improve your game, that just means you have to get better at flirting, etc. "Game" isn't some technical term or anything like that...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Flirting is just a skill, like approaching and closing. Just because someone knows how to do one or all of those things does not necessarily mean that he has 'game.'
Think of the guys on this site that have read thread after thread in the forum on what to do and not to do on a date. Yet every other day there are post about what gifts to buy after a month anniversary, how long should he talk to her on the phone and where to go on a date. These guys may have the skills but they definitely DO NOT have 'game.'
To have game, you must understand AND accept the laws or 'rules' of human interaction as it pertains to men and women. These rules include but are not limited to understanding that men are driven by logic while women are driven by emotion; that women prefer bad boys over nice guys even though they may not admit it and not to judge a woman by what she say but by what she does.
Being able to understand, accept and most of all knowing how to use DJ skills effectively with these and other rules is what gives you 'game.' To be successful you need to study, experiment and adjust your skills to become more effective with your skills. With enough practice you may become so successful in your interactions with women, it will feel as if you are playing a game in that you interact with women solely for your amusement.
What's even more exciting is that if you continue to learn and enhance your skills to match your personality, you may get to the point where you are successful even though you you don't use all of the DJ rules, that you start creating your own rules that work very well with your personality and skills. Why not? It's just a game.
Think of the guys on this site that have read thread after thread in the forum on what to do and not to do on a date. Yet every other day there are post about what gifts to buy after a month anniversary, how long should he talk to her on the phone and where to go on a date. These guys may have the skills but they definitely DO NOT have 'game.'
To have game, you must understand AND accept the laws or 'rules' of human interaction as it pertains to men and women. These rules include but are not limited to understanding that men are driven by logic while women are driven by emotion; that women prefer bad boys over nice guys even though they may not admit it and not to judge a woman by what she say but by what she does.
Being able to understand, accept and most of all knowing how to use DJ skills effectively with these and other rules is what gives you 'game.' To be successful you need to study, experiment and adjust your skills to become more effective with your skills. With enough practice you may become so successful in your interactions with women, it will feel as if you are playing a game in that you interact with women solely for your amusement.
What's even more exciting is that if you continue to learn and enhance your skills to match your personality, you may get to the point where you are successful even though you you don't use all of the DJ rules, that you start creating your own rules that work very well with your personality and skills. Why not? It's just a game.