"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what is game?

maqnetik

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some of you might observe and wonder about some of the people on this board and their use of the word "game". unfortunately the use of the word isnt quite as elusive as the definition itself but i think i can shed some light on the subject for those of you actually interested in learning the rules of the game itself:

"game" is when every word that flows out of your mouth, every action your body makes, and every calculated omission of speach or action serves a distinct and definite purpose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"game" is when every word that flows out of your mouth, every action your body makes, and every calculated omission of speach or action serves a distinct and definite purpose.
This sounds like you would be too uptight and try hard. If you're going to be good with women I think you have to be looser and having fun. Not calculating every move and thing you say. Sounds way too regimented. Better to know some fundamental principles and just go enjoy yourself. IMO.

I would define game as simply your ability to attract women. Specifically I guess it refers to your skill set (the way you interact with them), but it can also include the way you dress and the positive attributes you bring to the table.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko said:
This sounds like you would be too uptight and try hard. If you're going to be good with women I think you have to be looser and having fun. Not calculating every move and thing you say. Sounds way too regimented. Better to know some fundamental principles and just go enjoy yourself. IMO.

I would define game as simply your ability to attract women. Specifically I guess it refers to your skill set (the way you interact with them), but it can also include the way you dress and the positive attributes you bring to the table.
closer to the truth than you realize

:yes:

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http://www.jaqdhawkins.co.uk/SacPros.php

http://hbcdelivers.s439.sureserver.com/the-sacred-prostitute-resurrecting-pagan-rites

http://wapedia.mobi/en/Religious_prostitution

http://www.spiritportal.org/alchemy.html

http://www.playwinningpoker.com/poker/tells/

http://www.aquiziam.com/female_body_language.html

http://warrenssingapore.com/2009/04/reading-female-body-language/

http://fly.cc.fer.hr/~shlede/ying/yang.html

http://www.168fengshui.com/articles/yin-and-yang-theory/

http://www.syncrat.com/articles/body-language-female-courtship-signals

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1608/is_12_14/ai_53286976/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cg192cQYUA

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhU5QZPdZ70

http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/walshe/wheel225.html

http://www.cul****ch.com/hcwindex.html

http://web.singnet.com.sg/~alankhoo/Precepts.htm

http://warbuckradio.podbean.com/2007/01/27/rosebudd-bitterdose-interview/
 
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Game is what gives a Don Juan his power. It's an energy field created by all living things. It surrounds us, penetrates us, and binds the galaxy together.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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goodfoot said:
Game is what gives a Don Juan his power. It's an energy field created by all living things. It surrounds us, penetrates us, and binds the galaxy together.
May the Force be with you Jedi Master :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maqnetik said:
theres only one G(7)AME:

7(G) http://www.algonet.se/~anki-p/crown chakra.html

6(F) http://www.algonet.se/~anki-p/third eye.html

5(E) http://www.algonet.se/~anki-p/throat chakra.html

4(D) http://www.algonet.se/~anki-p/heart chakra.html

3(C) http://www.algonet.se/~anki-p/solar plexus.html

2(B) http://www.algonet.se/~anki-p/spleen chakra.html

1(A) http://www.algonet.se/~anki-p/Rootchakra.html

and weakening #3(C) with abdominal excercises not only enhances in-pocket(nonverbal/subliminal/unconscious) communication, it allows a woman to ground herself to and tap your energy from afar.

cut her off and reel her in when shes acting like a renegade.

;)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3DOvq8FsiUE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5jGPLXTtnQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bhj3N_hAF7Q
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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