"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what is game? can someone define game for me?

moneyisking

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Seems like a stupid question to ask since everyone says game game game everywhere and especially on this website, b/c this place is for people who wants to get laid (including me) I guess game is an ability to get a girl, but come on guys, we know there is more to it than that. I guess I never really thought about what game meant, and I am curious what "game" is.

I saw a thread "how do ugly guys get laid" and someone posted a reply saying most of guys have no game. What is that mean? If a guy has no game, what doesn't he have?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PDubb75

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Game is your ability to manipulate a certain situation in your favor. A tactic, strategy, etc.
 

pipe007

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easy
the game i your ability as a MAN to work on yourself and work on your skills until you begin to attract the kind of women you want into your life. (NOT CHASE THEM) just because they want to be with you , just because of who YOU are as a person, not about what you have.

not having game: thinking the girl has the power, and you must do every trick to impress her and have her fall in love with you, and become insecure needy in the process. they will feel superior to you beause they have something you want. and you need it. they will disrespect you and run away from you

having game: you are CONFIDENT and SECURE you can attract the girl you want, you have the power, and you choose to pick and chose them because you have high standards and wont settle for less. so you test them! they respect you and love you, and will chase you, because you have what they want (you worked for it) and you KNOW other women want it also, so your not needy, you know you can always get another girl. you just know you have what they want so you are calm and confident when interacting with them, cuz you know where the interaction is going.

in summary
Game = you dont really want her, and she wants more of you.
no game = you really want her, and she doesnt want you as much.

simple formula, just think of how to implement it in your beliefs, thoughts, attitudes, behaviors, and emotions.

peace.
 

moneyisking

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i agree with pipe the most. I believe that game is a being, not a trait or characteristic, but the being itself. For example, many special ops aren't born with stone cold mentality and rock solid discipline. After years of training, they just become that; that is their being, and I bet in everything they do (work, women, social life, friendship, eating, workout, etc etc) they will do as what their being is, which is the mind of special ops. Same goes with the don juan. I bet people who get laid don't think about tactics or lines or mentality (such as C&F or make fun of her) to have, but they act just as their being is. I wonder what kind of things they been through made them the being they are.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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